23/11/2024
My comment is you go girl and more power to you. I am a personal trainer and she has given hope and inspiration to many women out there who have none.
For those people who say a plus sized lady will always be single. As I have said elsewhere you will be VERY LUCKY to go out with a so-called "plus-sized" girl. Let me explain why. I am a personal trainer and I specialize in women's fitness. I also specialize in those listed for weight loss surgery.
Firstly ladies. If you are overweight and you get in shape and a partner only shows interest when you're in shape when they've previously bullied you then show them the door. If someone is not with you during your cold dark nights of winter, they don't deserve to be with you during your warm summer days. Now let me explain.
Have you seen Captain America: The First Avenger? A scientist devised a serum to make an average man 10-20 times stronger. Steve Rogers was chosen for the serum because he was a 7-stone weakling with asthma and polio. He'd never known health, strength, and fitness. So when he took the serum and became superhuman he'd never abuse his powers and would have compassion for those who never had it. I am training a load of "plus-sized" women to be personal trainers for the same reason.
A so-called "plus-sized" girlfriend would sadly have been fat-shamed like above. All she's known is rejection and ill-treatment. You show her respect and love and she'll treat you like a King. In return, I would ask you to treat her like a Queen. She'll stick with you through thick and thin- this assumes you treat her like a Queen. Of course, if she wants to get into shape then you should exercise together.
The grass is not greener on the other side. The grass is greener on the side you pay the most loving attention to.
One thing I recommend all couples do is one day a month to take a break from one another. Then you'll realize what you are missing. I also recommend once a month you have a date night and NOTHING should get in the way of that.
A super-slim lady can take her pick of the men. Anything goes wrong and she could be tempted to dump you faster than you can imagine because she can have any man she likes.
There is also a BIG difference between good health and being slim. If you are overweight my advice is to find a good personal trainer and follow their program.
I always tell my clients that for the first 4-6 weeks they'll gain more lean muscle and thus gain weight but they'll lose more fat in the long run because muscle weighs more than fat. However, muscle burns a lot of calories!
However never forget if someone is not with you during your cold dark nights of winter, they don't deserve to be with you during your warm summer days.
See the best example of a man who treats his so-called plus-sized wife with respect- the best James Bond- Pierce Brosnan
Jane Garrett: Breaking Barriers at Miss Universe 2023 Jane Garrett, the first plus-sized contestant in Miss Universe history to reach the top 20, faced both praise and criticism during her journey. She shared her experiences