13/12/2025
‘My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have been s3ggsual with each other but have not actually had s3ggs. He is 55, I am 52. He said in the last 14 years, since his divorce, he’s not been able to have v&ginal in*******se with anyone. He losses his er3ction as soon as he p3n3trates.
He is able to maintain an er3ction during play and bl0wj0bs and does have orga$ms. We just can’t make love.
He has said his ex wife said something to him at the end of their marriage and he’s been traumatized since and not able to make love to a woman.
He wants to heal and I would love to be able to make love with him but we’re not sure where to start.’
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We answer the above, as well as your questions about ‘thr0at-gasms’, p**n addictions, and the effect of ageing on l!bido 💖
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