 
                                                                                                    01/08/2024
                                            In love and romance we all want . . . 
Deep & Lasting Trust
Healthy Communication 
Passionate Intimacy 
Secure and Strong Emotional Bonds
But it can be harder than you think to create or sustain that.  
WHY IS THAT?
Attraction, Chemistry, Friendship, even Excellent Relationship Skills, won't help when the fire gets turned up, when either of you is stressed out, or life throws you curve balls. 
What you actually need most - in this very moment - is a method for staying open, connected, and trusting… 
In the toughest moments, when you’re feeling triggered, and want to shut down.
The truth is, though, your nervous system gets hijacked in these moments. 
You self sabotage.
You shut down.
You get selfish.
You (or your partner) are no longer act in your own best interest – let alone the best interest of your partner.
You don't tend to function as a team, and instead go to self preservation.
These responses are often based on faulty perspectives, the pain of your past, and outdated/biased information… 
Which cost you trust, connection, safety, and intimacy in your relationships. 
Sometimes this leads to sacrificing perfectly good relationships, families, and homes.
It leaves you feeling stressed, drained, tired, misunderstood, not heard, not trusted or validated, unsupported, and so much more.
Your partner likely feels the same things
You then unconsciously sabotage the very thing/person you love most, and are ironically the safest with.
You aren't mutually considerate, you get selfish, you may blame or attack, and ultimately mis each other with the best of intentions. 
Ps. We all do this in every relationship from time to time. . . . 
The good news is there is another way.  
You can learn to respond from a place of love, safety, and power when it gets tough, chaotic or hard.
Join us next week in I AM Powerful and you’ll experience:
Deeper intimacy 
Better s*x
Better communication
Closer connection
Being seen, heard, and understood; fully accepted for who you are
Consciously resolve disagreements
A conscious relationship that allows you to evolve and thrive - grow together 
Time to focus on the relationship
New tools for improving the relationship
Adventure, fun and excitement 
Strength, trust and safety
Clarity on needs, wants and desires
Remove barriers and gain tools
One husband said, “Why isn’t this taught to everyone?  This would have made my entire life so much easier! I have healed more in myself and my relationship in one month than I have in 10 years of therapy.”
Put a HEART emjoi and I'll send you details.                                        
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  