13/03/2019
When guys are interested in a lady. It becomes an addiction for them to do anything to please the lady. Am not saying that pleasing someone is bad or that you are committing any crime by during so. But, over doing these things can make you foolish. It is very good to know your limit, to avoid making unnecessary sacrifices that doesn’t worth it. Here are things you shouldn’t do for a woman.
Please, we are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the expense of your happiness or future and you should know that. Remember, not all the things you do just in the name of love are right. Here, are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
Things you shouldn’t do for a woman.
Rejecting Your Family Because Of Her
This might sound ridiculous, but I have seen guys doing similar things, for a lady that is not even their wife. A family is everything and no matter what, you are not supposed to reject them because your girlfriend doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman.
Being Over-Submissive
It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t appear weak to her by succumbing to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. The fact is that women actually hate weak men and will prefer if you’re sweet and sour. Simply know when to say NO!
Giving Up On Your Dreams to Satisfy Her
There are numerous guys out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. The fact is that a woman who is into you will not appreciate you giving up your dream for hers and will never encourage you to do so. Therefore, any lady asking you to do so, is only using you and will dump you once you become irrelevant. Never do this after reading this post!
Her Education
Supporting her education is never a bad ideal, if you want to. But, taking up the full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men. But if you can conveniently do this, just see it as a charity and don’t expect too much in return.
Buying a house for her, when you don’t have one.
Common sense should tell you to build your dreams together. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one is not showing that you are intelligent. If you do this, don’t be shocked, seeing another man living with her in the house. Some men are biting their fingers over this.
Fight another guy for her
Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, is either the person injures you and you end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Don’t be surprised to see her with another person when you finally return from the hospital or jail. Please, don’t try this, unless it is for self-defense.
Starving for Her
Never forfeit your food for her, at least, the both of you can share. But to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
Change Your Appearance
When you are too fat, it is good to engage on physical activities that will help you to slim down. But, it is ridiculous judging by what guys do in recent days. Taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love. Changing your appearance to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go. Ideally, should love you for who you are.
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Killing for her
Never think of committing such crime for any reason. It is wrong to take away another humans life, no matter how convincing the situation appears. Trust me, you will end up in jail and another man will take your position.
Steal for Her
Obviously, we all know the implications of stealing. Know what you can afford, a good woman will understand. Moreover, we are in the 21st century, where women have equal rights with men, implying equal responsibility. Therefore, she shouldn’t expect you to provide all her needs.
Never allow anything to push you into stealing to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you.
