
02/01/2020
Fussy Eaters_kids
It is quite normal for kids to be fussy about food. Babies are born with reflex to suckle at breast and swallow milk. Everything else like drinking from cup, chewing and swallowing solids have to be learnt. So teaching a child to eat different types of food while he/she is growing n developing is no mean task.
Following are some guidelines which will help to incultate healthy eating habits n avoid fussiness.
1. Start early: Weaning should be started by 4-6mon. Small quantities of soft mashed solids should be given at regular times, no force should be used. Meal times should be fun. Talk or sing to baby while feeding. 6-12mon is a good time to introduce different types of semi-solid home cooked foods- cereals, pulses, veggies, fruits etc. Babies may not like new things in the first attempt but keep persisting. Eventually taste will develop n baby will start accepting new foods.
2. Timetable: Meal times should be regular n at fixed times. Baby should always be in sitting position n immobile. Using a high chair from 8-9mon onwards is a good idea. As soon as u place a baby in high chair it knows that it is going to be fed. Baby learns to eat while sitting in one place. Avoid running behind while feeding. If u want ur child to develop healthy eating habit a discipline of meal times has to be inculcated early on.
3. Distractions: Like TV, videos on phones are to be avoided. These r habit forming n child will not eat without it. Also such children dont know what they r eating, they just swallow. Too much noise n too many people around also distract the child. It is important that the child is calm n focused on eating. Eating along with family helps the child to learn to eat what his/her family eats.
4. Choices: Offering too many varities n choices confuses the child. Insist on eating the same food as rest of family. Giving too much milk or snacks keeps the child full who then refuses meals. Children imitate parents, so eating fruits, veggies in front of them encourages them to copy n eat the same.
5. Praises n Punishments: Praising on eating well is good. Hugs, kisses, stars r good enough, no need to bribe with sweets. As far as possible ignore bad behavior during meal times, dont smack or yell. Be firm n strict but calm. Too much pampering n independence is also not good, parents have to teach children to listen n follow them.
Dr Anjali Bartakke