Demure Lyfe

Demure Lyfe Just shining my light and giving my offerings as I know how. I am a Shaman, Oracle, and Metaphysical Teacher operating in Chester New York.

For Distance Services please visit www.demurelyfe.com to schedule

Your burnout didn’t come out of nowhere.It wasn’t bad luck, lack of discipline, or the universe picking on you.It was pr...
13/08/2025

Your burnout didn’t come out of nowhere.
It wasn’t bad luck, lack of discipline, or the universe picking on you.
It was predictable — written into the same laws that keep the ocean moving and the moon shifting in the sky.

It took me years to understand my own seasons.
For so long, I fought them — forcing myself to be “on” every day, pushing through no matter what my body or spirit were trying to tell me.

When I finally stopped and learned my own tides, everything changed.
It wasn’t just about dodging burnout anymore.
It was about power — real, grounded, self-trust.
I stopped questioning my worth on my low days. I realized that when I honor my rhythm, my high phases aren’t just productive — they’re pure magic.

The Hermetic Law of Rhythm says everything moves in cycles.
Tides rise and fall. The moon waxes and wanes.
So does your energy, your mood, your capacity.

The danger?
We’ve been trained to ignore those cycles — to grind through the low tide like it’s a high tide, to treat rest like it’s a guilty pleasure instead of a birthright, to believe our value is tied to constant output.

And every time we do that, we set ourselves up for the exact crash we’re trying to outrun.

I wrote an entire deep-dive on this for my Patreon — breaking down the Law of Rhythm, the Afro-Indigenous wisdom behind it, the neuroscience that proves it, and the remedies to keep you out of the burnout loop.
If you’re ready to stop fighting the tide and start moving with it, you need to read this.

🌑 New Moon in Virgo Circle🕯 Saturday, August 23 @ 6PM⏳ Black Moon • 0° VirgoThis one isn’t about manifesting.It’s about ...
12/08/2025

🌑 New Moon in Virgo Circle
🕯 Saturday, August 23 @ 6PM
⏳ Black Moon • 0° Virgo

This one isn’t about manifesting.
It’s about purifying.
It’s about getting honest with your systems, your rituals, your structure — and whether they’re actually built to hold your spirit.

We’ll gather in-store for ritual (supplies provided), conversation, and a reset rooted in real alignment. I’ll guide us through the timeline we’re in — and what Virgo is trying to clean up.

Then Mariah of will lead us in meditation + offer a custom sigil to take home with you — a sacred anchor for the work.

✨ Bring your own seat (yoga mat, cushion, or chair).
✨ Optional altar offerings: Flowers, To***co, Money, Chocolate.
(My Ancestors don’t play.)

Spots are limited. Sign up through the link in my bio.

✨ Mercury Goes Direct — August 11, 2025 ✨The fog’s breaking.You can feel it.But don’t get hype and run off just yet.Merc...
12/08/2025

✨ Mercury Goes Direct — August 11, 2025 ✨

The fog’s breaking.
You can feel it.
But don’t get hype and run off just yet.

Mercury’s finally direct in Leo.
The static in your head is clearing.
Convos are making sense again.
Your creativity’s creeping back in.

Your brain? It’s been jammed up for weeks — like having 47 tabs open and all of them playing music. Now… it’s quiet. You can think again.

Spiritually, this is a speaking season. Not just with your mouth — with your whole frequency. Every word you say is carrying something: healing, clarity, truth. Say it like you mean it.

But listen — we’re still in the retroshade until Aug 25.
That’s Mercury walking back over old ground, showing you exactly what still needs to be cleaned up before you can really move forward.

🌿 Move like this:
• Go fix the convos that went left last month.
• Tie up what’s loose — stop stacking more mess.
• Create, but don’t rush the release.
• Let your words be intentional. They’re spells.

This ain’t the time to sprint.
Walk with precision.
Walk with purpose.

Mercury’s awake.
So what are you speaking into existence?


They don’t always fit into just one box.Some people collect toxic traits like trophies — and they’ll drain you in multip...
12/08/2025

They don’t always fit into just one box.
Some people collect toxic traits like trophies — and they’ll drain you in multiple ways if you let them.

Knowing the signs is your first shield.
Enforcing your boundaries is your sword. 🛡⚔

💡 Save this so you can spot them early.
💬 Which types have you met the most? Drop them below.

Joy isn’t a reward — it’s a right.It’s not something you earn by proving you’ve suffered enough.It’s not a treat for mak...
11/08/2025

Joy isn’t a reward — it’s a right.

It’s not something you earn by proving you’ve suffered enough.
It’s not a treat for making it out alive.
It’s something your spirit deserves — just because you’re here.

This week’s Midweek Medicine is a channeled message from my altar reminding you:
Joy is sacred. And it’s allowed now.
Even in the middle of your process.
Even if everything’s not fixed yet.
Especially then.

🕯️ I send out these altar-born messages every Wednesday — each one with a mini ritual to help you live the lesson.

✨ Want the full ritual from this week’s message?
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Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎Char Thom, Aliya Headen, Kaia Olivia Reuter, Luwaine DeFreese, Wil Cunningham, Cha...
11/08/2025

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎

Char Thom, Aliya Headen, Kaia Olivia Reuter, Luwaine DeFreese, Wil Cunningham, Chanelle Mofford, AbenaAnum Bronx, Jenna Class, Stackz Max, Lashannon Shekhinah R. Armistead, Jennifer Del Vecchio

Drop a comment to welcome them to our community,

The first time I carried High John, I was at a crossroads.I’d been hitting the same walls over and over — opportunities ...
10/08/2025

The first time I carried High John, I was at a crossroads.
I’d been hitting the same walls over and over — opportunities slipping through, plans stalling, people telling me to “just wait my turn.”
I was done waiting.

I anointed that root, told him exactly what I wanted, and carried him every day.
Things started shifting — conversations opened, offers came in, and moves that felt stuck for months suddenly clicked into place.
That’s when I understood why High John is more than a root — he’s a spirit you partner with.

High John the Conqueror is one of the most respected roots in Hoodoo.
It comes from the Ipomoea jalapa plant, tied to the spirit of a Black folk hero who could outthink, outmaneuver, and outlast any opponent. Enslaved in body, never in spirit — his legacy is about winning without bowing.

In practice, the root is carried whole, anointed with Van Van or Crown of Success oil, and spoken to like a living ally. It’s worked for legal victories, business success, love pursuits, and breaking through obstacles when nothing else moves.

High John isn’t for pleading — it’s for commanding. You meet him with confidence, feed him with oil, smoke, whiskey, or firm words, and then you move like you’ve already won.

🌿 Get your High John Conqueror Root at www.demurelyfe.com

Drums and thunder aren’t just noise. They’re alive.In our Afro-Indigenous ways, the drum is the Earth’s heartbeat. Every...
10/08/2025

Drums and thunder aren’t just noise. They’re alive.

In our Afro-Indigenous ways, the drum is the Earth’s heartbeat. Every beat lines up with yours, pulling you back into rhythm with the land, your people, and Spirit.
Thunder? That’s the Sky and the ancestors talking. You feel it because it’s supposed to move you.

When you catch a beat in your chest or feel a storm rumble through your bones, you’re not “just vibing.”
You’re remembering.

Your body knows this language. Ancestral memory lives in your DNA, just waiting for sound and vibration to wake it up.
Science calls it rhythmic entrainment — steady beats syncing your heartbeat and brainwaves. Low, deep sounds (like heavy drums or thunder) hit your vagus nerve, help you let go of tension, and even pull up memories you didn’t know you still carried.
Our elders didn’t need research to tell them that — they already knew.

That pull you feel to cry, dance, pray, or just stand still when you hear them? That’s ancestral recall. Your body saying: I know this. I’ve always known this.

Drumming circles. Ceremony. Storms.
They’re not “just a vibe.” They’re an invitation to get back in harmony with yourself, your people, and the forces that keep this world alive.

✨ Next time the drum calls or the thunder rolls — don’t just hear it. Answer it.

Cutting a cord without changing your patterns is like locking the front door but leaving the windows wide open.When I do...
09/08/2025

Cutting a cord without changing your patterns is like locking the front door but leaving the windows wide open.

When I do energy work, I’m not just clearing you — I’m handing you a new lens.
Because if you don’t see the situation differently, your nervous system will keep reaching for the same old story.

The spiritual side? That’s me severing the cord, cleansing your field, shifting the current.
The mental side? That’s you learning how not to plug back in — interrupting old habits, choosing different responses, regulating your body until peace feels normal.

✨ Ritual is the release. Mindset is the maintenance.
One without the other is why people find themselves “tied” again.

I don’t just want you free today. I want you free for good.

FULL MOON IN AQUARIUS – AUG 9 | 3:55am ESTThis Moon is not here to hold your hand.It’s here to show you where you’re sti...
09/08/2025

FULL MOON IN AQUARIUS – AUG 9 | 3:55am EST

This Moon is not here to hold your hand.
It’s here to show you where you’re still performing for approval, blending in out of fear, or calling silence “safety.”

Aquarius energy doesn’t do loyalty for loyalty’s sake.
It cuts the cord where truth has been compromised.
If it doesn’t feel aligned anymore—it isn’t.

Over on Patreon, I’m breaking it all down:
what this lunation is really doing, what it’s severing, and what it’s asking from your spirit.

And for my upper tiers—I dropped a full ritual, spiritual bath, and ingredient list to help you unhook from the roles, groups, or identities you’ve outgrown.

No performance. Just power.

🜃

I’ve said this before, and I’ll keep saying it:Your body is holding the history your ancestors couldn’t release.That fir...
08/08/2025

I’ve said this before, and I’ll keep saying it:
Your body is holding the history your ancestors couldn’t release.

That fire in your liver? The anger your grandmother had to swallow.
That weight in your chest? The grief your people weren’t allowed to speak.
That knot in your gut? The fear of losing everything — passed down like an heirloom.

Science calls it epigenetics — trauma that changes gene expression and gets inherited.
Our traditions call it memory in the flesh.

Healing means more than “talking about it.”
You have to move it out of the body:
🌿 Feed your organs with herbal allies.
🕯 Cleanse your spirit through ritual.
💨 Breathe deep enough to tell your nervous system: We’re safe now.

When you do that, you’re not just healing for you.
You’re breaking chains for everyone before you… and everyone after you.

📌 Save this for the days you feel heavy.
💌 Share it so more people understand this truth.

8/8 — the Apex of the Lion’s Gate.This is the peak.Clarity comes quick.Your ancestors are close.The truth is here, and i...
08/08/2025

8/8 — the Apex of the Lion’s Gate.

This is the peak.
Clarity comes quick.
Your ancestors are close.
The truth is here, and it won’t be ignored.

Your inner radar is sharp right now. Pay attention to what repeats — that’s your guidance.
Ground yourself, write it down, and take one step toward it today.

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