Tami Blakely Reverent Living & Grief Bereavement Coach

02/01/2025

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01/01/2025

And so it begins…Transformation 2025

2024 was a great year of integration and building skills. I feel 2025 is the year of transformation. Transformation of our societal beliefs, generational curses, limited thinking of self and others and above all self discovery and love.
Here’s to 2025 transforming our world into the best times in our history.
Blakely Ranch is here to support you in caring, feeling, allowing and honoring yourself as you travel your individual path to transformation.

01/01/2025

From my heart to yours, Happy New Year.

24/12/2024

Emotional agility is the gift of the season for some.

22/12/2024

09/10/2024

Here’s another way to donate the hurricane victims through a reputable church in the area

02/09/2024

My latest blog, hope you enjoy the read!

Horses In A Box

Human nature has evolved by our brain’s ability to put people, experiences, beliefs in boxes. It has been part of our survival to assess risk and assign a tag for our chances to be here tomorrow to be optimal.
What I see with a lot of different things, not just horses, is the overwhelming desire for people to put things they do not understand or have been conditioned to believe, in a box…a very tight, limited and confined box with no room for thinking outside said box.
When it comes to the horse world I have been in the rodeo world, show world, liberty world, trail world, woo woo world, english world, western world etc In short if you can do it on a horse chances are I’ve experienced it.
What I have come to notice is the humans desire to put the horse and rider in a box, but I do wonder why? I have felt this box bias many times in my horse career and I still don’t love it nor find it helpful.
We can be varied in our skill and passion of horseback riding and feel the curiosity peek for something different to do with our equine partner. As long as the respect for the horse is the same, why not try?
I believe regardless of atire or if we are sliding to a stop or gently downward transitioning to a halt, we have the beautiful opportunity to view a different way of being on horseback, as in life too.
When we try something unfamiliar it truly is what a full life is all about. Neuroscientists call this brain activity dendrites. It’s what happens in the brain when we stretch our neurons outside of our normal thinking. Like branches on a tree we can create new dendrites and our brain is healthier for it!
Taking those chances outside of our societal box boundaries. Finding the curiosity to try something totally new that is a challenge to learn. These are all opportunity’s to loose track of time and space while trying and challenging ourself to learn, all while creating new dendrites.
So today I urge you to step out of this box, whether on horseback or in your own Nikes and try that one thing that is so new and kinda scary the people who know you best will raise an eyebrow or two. Let those that talk stay in their smallness and chances are your living full may spark their own desire for new dendrites…..maybe.
Life is so much more than the dream of a music box, or any box really. It’s as grand as your curiosity will allow…. all you need is the desire to try!

“God gave us the gift of life; it is up to us to give ourselves the gift of living well”.— Voltai

“When I’m taking my last breath, I want to look at how I used up the best of myself. How much did I sweat, push, pull, rip, fall, hit, crash, explode? My dream is to be so well-used that in my last-half second, I just burst into dust” – Elizabeth Streb

Life itself is a privilege, but to live life to the fullest- well, that is a choice.— Andy Andrews

07/08/2024

Hope Definition: (according to Webster)
-A feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen.
-A feeling of trust.

It’s interesting that neither of these definitions actually fully describes what hope means to me.

To me, it means there are great possibilities ahead the feeling of excitement, the promise that dew on on a blade of grass brings, the knowing that things always change, the focus on my perception being the key to feeling hopeful or desperate.
Through my life I have always had what I called butterfly hope, when things were as traumatic as they could be, I always felt this little butterfly of hope inside my core. I knew that the possibility for the day to be different, for the life to turn in a new direction, for the Intensity to lighten and the excitement and the joy to begin again was always eminent. Just as the intensity of a storm brings new life and growth so does the intense struggles of life. In grief, in pain, in struggle. This is how I stay in flow of the ups and downs of it all
and this to me is H. O. P. E. 

19/07/2024

17/07/2024

This is the second full moon in Cancer and Capricorn and no I’m not an astrologist, however this is a big one for a lot of us. This “Guru Moon” is how we actually put the work in to return to home, to God, to source whilst still in this human quagmire. I invite you to set intentions by this full moon and feel into the reverence of ceremony and ritual. Join us for a sound journey into source and access different dimensions of consciousness outside the 5 senses. All are welcome and pay if you can always apply to everything I do.
Experience healing frequencies through sound, true connection within community and the magnetic pull of the moon to set intentions.
A few spots left email me asap!