What's Happening In Many Marriages Today?

15/02/2025

Good evening family,

Amen 🙏🏽 more grace to all 🙏🏽

Please permit me share this encouragement to keep the faith as we show forth Godly love among ourselves no matter what we may be facing individually or perhaps together for the sake of God’s love ❤️

Let’s read these:
1 john 4:4-21; 1 John 3:3-24, john 3:16. Mathew 22:37-39

Godly love ❤️ i bring you all today🙏🏽

I love everyone here 🙏🏽❤️💜
I salut all the general in the house 🏡
Greetings to the rest of us all with godly love,

It’s a blessing to know you love and are loved by God almighty , God loves us and it’s great to realize it through those you are surrounded by ‘We see and learn of that love of God towards us as in Proverbs 8:17 which says i love those those that love me’ proverbs 17:17 says your friends are those that show their love always..’ we do not say we love others and do not tell or show it. showing and sharing our love is showing we know God’s word and do it. How is God’s love towards us? We tend to concentrate on folks bad moves of hatred than of the love of Christ Jesus towards us that abides, at times, some forget it is Christ that matters mostly’no one else!’_That is where many feel lonely! We are not alone in our love for Christ Jesus in the midst of haters and never will be when God is with us’ and we with God ; Mathew 22:37-39
Let us continue to Love God no matter the accuracy of the results loves brings, love God with you that we are and have! That is with ( our mind, our hearts and souls) for this is what i think God wants as a gift to gift him today, i don’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️ if that how you see it ! But i choose to love God and show everyone that i love them except the devils who will continue to show their hatefulness then they will taste 👅 the flavor of the fire that is above the hails of hell from me for no other reason lol 😂 i can not possibly start loving them to be hated by them, but soon will love to forgive them in my grace. As God loves leads me’ that is all that matters to me’ in this our dark lovely world 🌍 be careful of whom to love !
You must choose wisely, as in Joshua 24:15
Isaiah 60:1-3 says The world is dark and that darkness are people! Its hard for a dark hearted person to see your love and cherished it’ essence people! Gross darkness are the people of darkness on earth! But we are the children of light 💡 for all who Love God are called to be part of the family of light 💡 where love is seen known and cherished.The World’s love is in crisis dear fellow Sisters and Brothers; many are hating on themselves, race against race,parents and children arguments, churches fighting and closings, separation cases..like many best of friends are even no longer friends with unstoppable quarrels , just as Pastors are disappointing themselves and arguing other pastors,Marriages are being facing separation and devorces
Youth away from the truth and faith , financial and health challenges/difficulties… how much love can you get from all these times and be satisfied from the World love of crisis ?
Love God because he love is everlasting!
I will stop here!
🙏🏽💜❤️💕🥰

Let’s 🙏🏽 pray 🙏🏽

Dear heavenly Abbah father, our God, our lover, our maker the one we serve, we thank you for the gifts of life and love we have , we receive and enjoy, we thank you for your grace and mercies when we wanted to know your thoughts of love towards us from others through the gestures of those around us, you did not let us be Brocken that we lost it all ; God, please forgive us of our sins of immortality, and any ungrateful ungodly performances of ignorance of your continued true love towards us,please help us to realize your tolerance and mercies for us are forever renewed for us to be forgiven and be able to pardon those that hated on us and hurt our feelings, we pray for healing and help of choices and wisdom of will and purpose for us to choose to love everyone wisely and genuinely over hate ; as we choose to express our gratitude to you daily almighty father, ask that you rebuke our fears by our accomplished faiths in your victorious love; we say thank you God once again for the sacrifice of your son Jesus Christ who died and rose to show us agapanthus love, help us to continually have love and know when , where , how, and with whom to share that manifest loving kindness for your sake , in your wonderful wisdom, and joy , and grace, and blessings in the mighty loving name of Jesus Christ we pray,
And we say:
Amen 🙏🏽

Thank you everyone for your time, i hope it bless your hearts , IJN, Amen 🙏🏽
🥰 ❤️💕💜🙏🏽🙏🏽

Shalom;

Minister Mrs. Atanda

22/12/2023

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17/09/2023

God thank you for adding another beautiful and lovely graceful year to my wise powerful and able best of all friends, Rev. Prophet,Rev.Pastor , praying partner, my warrior, my leader, my darling husband ,the father to our children and a great man of his own God given kind that he still is to me. Thank you for all you do in his life Abbah Father 🙏🏽🔥 Best his new year as we wish him a very Happier Happy Birthday in Jesus Christ Mighty Name, Amen 🙏🏽
Happy plus 1 joyful and fruitful Birthday Daddy 😁🙏🏽🔥❤️❤️🔥❤️🔥👏🎊🎉🎂🎂🎂🎂🎁🎈🎊 We love you loads 🙏🏽

10/07/2023

Hello everyone on my page,
I want to salute anyone and everyone who have supported me on my page in one way or another.Most especially the First 100 subscribers 🙏🏽
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Sir, Madam,✍️We thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️👏
It is with great pleasure that I write ✍️ to say a sincere silent blessed prayer and A Big Huge Thanks To You 🙏🏽
I thank God for you all🙏🏽
I have reached many important people as among you followers! Thank you for your continued visual supports. I could not have done anything in the interest of anyone or any of you all without each of you 👍 likes, love ❤️ cheers, comments, and just being there to glance at me me while I post. Keep up cheerleading I and my family in this positive manner with the understanding of the knowledge of life demands and the wisdom of God shared one to another I am willing to dedicate my time for you next few weeks again as am In working progress and heavily loaded with the word of God
I believe God will be in total control of all I do ,say or react to as I resume to my teachings here on Facebook and other social networking platforms.
Thank you for not ever giving up on me and taking my advice seriously 🙏🏽
More grace to my husband and I in this calling and more love to you all fans and dear fellow followers of our pages🙏🏽
God bless you all in Jesus Christ name
Amen🙏🏽

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Shallom,

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Mrs. Atanda
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04/11/2020

Hello Everyone , What a long wait it's been on this page ?
Hello Lovely Fans, We miss you very much and everyone is doing great!
How are you all coping with this pandemic?
We pray God protect you all ,keep you all safe and heal touch by this covid-19 pandemic desease.
We applogize for not being often here to share blessings and moments with all!

HOWEVER, all is well on our end!

ON behalf of the Ballah Atanda Family and the Family of Christ Jesus Our Lord, we are here to Officially present to you our New Born Baby,
Please Help Us and Join US Welcome "Praise Thehilla Elizabeth Oluwabokomi Ballah-Atanda".

God bless you all for always being there for us an with us showing support with unlimited efforts as blessed.
We want to thank everyone who has been there with us and for us.
Thank God for all of you who gave us gifts, cash app money and amazon prime baby registry gift cards , thanks to those family and close friends who took time during this pandemic to travel and come visite us,those who called, messages,love,like shared some moments we shared with them; we say a biger thank You,
God Richly Bless You In Jesus Christ Name, Amen.

05/11/2019

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Lesson 2:

Saying "NO" to cheating as couples in a marriage relationship and committed relationship.

part B.
Saying NO to S*x before Marriage!

S*x can kill
Marriage is not s*x and s*x is not a visa to be Married!

Wait on God's Time!
The story in Lesson 2: part
Continues:

So what was what that cashier lady said to me at the mall. I meant my ex friend:

She said:...
YOU saw him in a facebook group:
•U check his Profile picture.
•He Drives A Range Rover Sport 2016.He is handsome.
•He inboxed you.
•You reply, all excited.
•You'll want 2 hook up.
•You set a date.
•You dress up that Legging With No underwear.
•Smelling good.
•You put on a make up - fresh breath and new weave.
•He takes you 4 lunch @ Data Hotel.
•He Takes you for - Drinks At OB's.
•You two have a good time.
•He rubs your hands,
•Makes you laugh,
•Gives you looks and smiles.
•You stupidly fall in love.
•It's like you've known him Forever.
•He takes you to his apartment.
•He makes you feel comfortable and lays u on his bed.
•Kiss you passionately.
•You love his aggression, strength, power and you give in.
•It feels good.
•You know it's wrong, but it feels good.
•You ask for protection, he says it's too late.
•You obey and don't disturb.
•He says he loves you and you don't hesitate to say you love him too. He hits it nice and slow
•After, he goes to the kitchen to get a glass of water.
•He helps you drink it, ooohh man.
•You feel special.
•"He must be the one" you think to yourself.
•You get dressed.
•He takes you to the taxi park.
•He kisses you on the cheeks and says
•"I had a great time,"
•Gives You cash.
•U smile and say.
•"See you tomorrow babe."
• He stays silent.
•Your taxi drives away,
•In the taxi u can't stop smiling.
•You get home and inbox him that you got home safe.
•He is online, but doesn't reply.
•It's unlike him, so you inbox him again.
•He doesn't respond.
•Minutes later you can't find him on ur friend list.
•HE BLOCKED YOU.
•Days, weeks, months passes by.
•You start feeling sick, weak, loose weight, act strange with sores in your mouth.
•You go to the clinic.
•Get tested.
•Minutes later,
•Nurse walks in."I'm sorry. You're HIV Positive and Pregnant!"
•"HOW ?"
•You don't understand..Reality hits you.
•You walk home.
•Confused.
•You go to the bus stop.
•You lay, hopeless, emotional, scared.
•You see death coming nearer.
•You look into the sky & mumble a prayer.
This is the end of her story! I cry
"🙆So sorry this happened to you.But i know you might have learn great things from this experience"
"Yes"she replied!
"I have really changed o"
She continues again..
"So please tell your husband to please call me..And may be convinced one of his best friends or Brothers to also marry me"..as she finished up checking out my last dressed and gave me my total Price..
I said: "yes! U Reall Change !.."But not a good 1.
"So please sis Theresa, help me find a husband any one can be accepted this time now...am ready for this Marriage thing too."
I remained silent.
I paid for the clothes and said to her:
"No" young lady.
The best husband to Find now who will accept you as you are is God not my husband nor his friends or Brothers far away from them in Jesus Christ Name, Sorry" but I can't do it! But let us pray for you if you have a minute...before I leave you..if you wish for me to pray I will be waiting in my car outside for the next 10 minutes But finding you a husband,is totally impossible! I can't do it! I can't! Only God ordains Marriages. We don't! We only offer advice prayers and canceling for Marriages and relationships talk shows..."
God bless you in your search.Have a great day!
"So it is true this is the end of Me?U're preaching God to me..most I be Christian in this shameful skin has your God not pushing me enough..?`uhuh..uhuh.."
Then she started subbing and nudding her head there.
I turned I knew she wasn't in a good mood but i did not show her emotions even though I was a bit sad & compassionate about her condition.I then said:
"Yes! That's the end of you..young lady! Your beautiful face has vanished, your beauty is fading and you are sick, you don't need God? "I continued:"If surrendering to Christ is the end of you then (yes) it is the end of you! Your Page is closed it can only be re-open by God.
Call me a liar if any better person will love you and Mary you!"
I stepped out, waited to pray with her but when she came out she told me she was fine with the prayers and I
then drove away..from the mall.
Don't be that girl!
Pls Live well.Stop Chasing Men or women for Dig/Pussie/Money Sake! No amount of Material Things can validate true Love.Stop chasing SPONSORS!
Be Whom You Want Your Son/Daughter To Be!
TO ALL THE LADIES.
LIVE A LIFE
NOT A LIE.
What Do you think I should do to help her?Pray and connect her to any man willing to have her?Is this a best way to help her find a husband with after all that have been said now?
_You Answer!
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's Happening In Many Marriages Today?

05/11/2019

INTIMACY & S*X IN RELATIONSHIPS / MARRIAGES
's Happening In Many Marriages?

Chapter 6: SAYING: "NO!" TO CHEATING!

Sub-Title: BLING SPOT DATING!

LESSON 3: SAY; "NO!" TO BLIND SPOT DATING!

Before you plan to Date or plan to Marry Someone Pray for God's will to be done first! 1 Thess 5:16-18 says pray without season, in all things give thanks for this is the will of concerning you in christ Jesus..Let your request be made known unto God with prayers and thanksgiving! I will say, while you pray observe the person closely..Take time to study his or her personality conducts character,honesty,clarity, dress codes type of food and drinks he or she takes_in, health status, faith godliness,focus,dreams,visions, availabilities capacities and controls.. it doesn't take long to know this things when the love is still blind you can see what is coming good or bad,n facts but at times people ignore this facts..they tend to stay stuck with the very things they did not like at all..and what is not right for you, is not just right for you my dear..
except if the person in question start showing positive changes because of true loves you both plan to work on it then you can pray God's will in that relationship and all will work out best for your good in JESUS CHRIST NAME,..Amen! Amen?..
Also,you should know that the will of God does not contradict the plans of God for you.. is for you is to live well having a good prosperous life according to Jeremiah 29:11 "God says my plans for you are of good and not to harm you..!"

Don't say 'yes' to strangers!
Let that lover boy or girl {the stranger} make himself or herself a best friend first. Be Patient To Observe Your Partner!
This is a man or woman whom you have no clue off, purse, pray and examine the person ask as many questions as possible to know him or her before taking him or her to bed or plan marriage. Make sure what you see in that person is what you want for yourself, what you hear about the person past should be prayed off, his or her true character conducts and personality now should matched what you can accept and or cope with before saying 'Yes I Do'!
What is A Blind Spot lovely Date?
What is A Blind Spot Dating?
TO END; Here what Mom once said to me!

COTE~" MAMA BALLAH"
Tewa Elizabeth Ballah
Tewa Elizabeth Ballah
Tewa Elisabeth Ballah
SHE SAID:

"My beloved children; love is not blind ! True love see above and beyond measures!" MAMA BALLAH CONTINUE BY SAYING TO US:
~"Marriage is beautiful when your love can dictate what it sees that is good.True love sees right, feel right, and receive what is right from GOD and from whom God made right for you to love and be loved by.SHE SAID: "When your love is in God's plan and will..Everything falls in place for the best of the both of you! god's will in true love makes your partner come willing to share love faithfully and honestly loving you above all others, and cherishing you for you, in CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD! " She ended by saying:

"LOVE IS NOT BLIND; LOVE SEES WHAT LIES IN THE EYES OF IT'S BEHOLDER!"
Thanks a lot Mama!

👩‍🎤 NOT DATE IN BLIND SPOTS!🙏🙏
I Listened to my MOM today am a happy Married Woman!

GOD BLESS YOU MAMA BALLAH🙏

05/11/2019

05/11/2019

Lesson 2:part A
Saying "No!"
Many couples are now saying "NO!" to Cheating & s*x Before proper Commitments !
-why?
O boy, Today:
I was with some cashier at the mall while shopping clothes for church service which I invited her to attend long ago..
This young nice looking and Gorgeous🌹 Lady I knew🥀 did not look the same as I knew her to be.🍂She has rash on her face and looked pale as if she' suffered some type of dealt disease..🚑_She greeted me with joy to have seen me. And stated saying that she has been in need of seeing my husband for Special prayers.
Then told me that her reason is because she needed a husband like ASAP.
_I laughed😄cause I taught it was a joke!
But she frown & kept on telling me how she has finally giving her life to Christ and that
She has been believing God praying & wanting to settle in Marriage.But,the Story Afterwords got scary and hard for me to process.🤦She has stop receiving money from dating random men for the sake of classy looking and Beautiful Materials for herself.
She has enough to take care of herself and her man now..and then said more..that let me Know how serious her matter is to be handled carefully.
Let me give you a little bit story about what happened "(....)"she said it all!
But before I continue to say to you what she really told me happened to her: let me say this:
I knew she was very pretty
She was blessed
She was raise by good parents
She was fun being around
She was helpful
She was disobedient
She was a hard working lady though a professional Begger to Men!
She was wise As a leader type not a follower
She picks her friends and men she wanted in her life.
Infant she was too picky, classic, pretty & Gorgeous a lady that many will love to have as friend and men will want to lie with.💃
What a cutie she was😍
💕
_She has tricked so many men to have fallen in love with her while she pretended to have accepted their love but fake eat their money and walked away from them. _haha"🤷 I eat his money for free and did not accept that stupid idiot proposal of love" lol she will say'
she would say it laugh out loud 😛& walk away! For this (This) I worked her about..she shut me up and was never close to me again! It was sad to have lost her friendship even though I remain friendly to her.I had to let her be..😢
She has done so much of this type of things that many good friends broke up with her for this behavior 😔
I too let her go!
We are no longer friends but are still cool.
We Just don't want to mingle again!
It because,I know for sure that we both now have different destinies and parts in life. We may like each other but on different part in life. Birds of the same feathers should go together.
- I believed she had a choice of her own in life and I needed to respect her boundaries..!
No matter what;
As for me, I can't be your friend and don't tell you the truth. For her, no one can ever tell her what is right or foolish of her to do when around.
_For Such a lady to fall in love with just any type of guy or even choose one like a ghost as night stand partner to connect with him too quickly, that made me Sad. But it is what it is!Base on how i knew her and how well she handles herself around such situations..that wouldn't be something too big of her...
however something led her to be so desperate and did so!
Let's see what really happened!
We will all find out soon..
Please read on:
Today,
I cry for her,Ah🤦God please help Her in your mercy I pray..,Amen.🙏
This is How I felt sorry 🤦for this Lady, after hearing her News and seeing her newest chapter in life...,it beat my heart!

I felt So sorry that I have to pray for her but also share her story that we will learn from her mistakes without having to do them.
how many of you ladies are still doing this things out there and yet believe there no consequences? 'Please change and come to christ!'
What a shameful her now?
🕵Her name please..?
🙏Please Don't ask for her name..🤲
_I can not give you her name(s) because shame has no other name than shy..!
I respect her opinion in "this case" I still respect to keep some of her private things secret since we are friendly one to another and were once friends in the past.
Let's take a break here!
Story continues................
Thanks for reading..!

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Lesson 2: part B.

Narrator: MRS. ATANDA

05/11/2019

10/07/2019

LOVE IS KIND