
13/09/2022
Over the last 6 months, I only used social media about once per month. Want to know what happened?
* I lost the urge to reach for my phone and check on my posts, comments, and messages.
* My neck stopped feeling stiff.
* I spent more in-person time with people I really like spending time with.
* I realized that, while I believed I was thinking independently, I was honestly being deeply influenced by, well, influencers. Memes, stories, posts, reels, and headlines provoke our emotions and guide our feelings. Because of the way social media algorithms work, the things we view are a form of targeted advertising.
* So, I began to look more deeply into people's words. Instead of taking them at face value or judging if they were using the socially appropriate language, I learned to ask, "What is this person's background and intent? "What are the underlying values behind their words? What do they really mean by this?".
* And...I began looking at people with less judgment and more compassion.
* I spent a LOT more time outdoors and in the present moment.
The downside? I did not gain followers and views, get likes and comments, or build my brand online. The workshops and classes I post will now be shown to fewer people.
I think it was worth it.
Much love,
Suzanne 💜