When The Fairytale Ends (2025)

06/09/2023

Has your soon-to-be ex-husband become spiteful since separating?

How dare you leave him, right?

Because he can’t fathom you actually moving on without him.

Ask yourself, “What is he really afraid of losing?”

I can tell you what it is.

He wants either the money you provide, the stability you provide, ‘the look’ your marriage provides, OR all of the above.

You’ve been in it too long and close to it to see it clearly.

Men who behave this way do so to protect their egos.

Being anything near peaceful and accountable for “their” actions that led to divorce would require them to admit to themselves that they were poor husbands.

They can’t do that.

So he creates the conditions and a narrative that makes HIM the victim and YOU the villain.

They’re caught in a cycle of self-destruction, and they don’t know how to get out, nor do they want to.

Dysfunction and shifting blame become so familiar and comfortable to them that they fear the freedom of taking accountability, owning their flaws and traumas, and working on healing because healing can be painful and ugly.

They are choosing to remain unhealed and broken.

I encourage you to keep pushing forward because you’re doing what is necessary to heal.

Let him sit in his misery, Sis.

Need to talk it out? DM me or click the link in my bio and book a 20-minute discovery call.

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04/09/2023

The person we marry is not the person we divorce. 💥

You’re probably trying to figure out when this version presented himself in the relationship.

🕵️‍♀️What clue did you miss?
🚩What “red flag” did you miss?

And you’re wondering, “Who the f**k are you?”

I’m going to tell you happened.

🥸He put on a facade until he couldn't anymore.

You overlooked it until you couldn’t anymore because you loved him.

But now…each and every day is an agonazing decent into hell.

He criticizes every financial decision you make but he can spend money any way he wishes.

He’s making financial decision without you and is limiting your access to the household finances.

But when you ask him about it he tells you…

“You’re being paranoid,”
“You’re overreacting,” or
“That never happened.”

It’s time to plan an escape plan, Sis. 🛫

Inside the Virtual Assistant Success Academy, you’ll start and build a reliable virtual assistant business that finally helps you escape your toxic, financially abusive relationship.

And there is so much more, including weekly group coaching with a group of women who are on the same path as you, 1:1 coaching, and an online course. Get started today on module one, where you’ll learn the mindset needed to become a virtual assistant, the foolproof formula to set your rates, and how to juggle multiple clients. Get started today so you can join our call next week, where you’ll get coached and receive personalized feedback on YOUR va biz.

If you are ready to build and grow a successful virtual assistant business, I invite you to join the Virtual Assistant Success Academy.

Questions? Drop them below or DM me if you need the link to join.

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01/09/2023

When you got married, he moved you to his hometown.

You and your kids have zero social/family support.

You are a homemaker with a part-time job and going to school full-time.

Because he won’t leave…

You’re mentally and physically unwell.

You would initiate the divorce if you had family/social support.

Without any…

You’re just wasting away.

You still tend the kids, go to work, and do your school work + look for a full-time job.

But the stress of him NOT leaving…is wearing you down.

Here are a few tips on what you can start doing now to plan your escape.

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Start to genuinely think about an exit strategy and do it in silence.

Only make a decision about what to do with your marriage once you are mentally and physically stronger. When you are in a better position, please know that he doesn't get to decide if your marriage will last.

Everything feels overwhelming, but try to do one small thing each day that helps you escape, even something as small as donating clothes or decluttering a room.

Seriously, consider starting a virtual assistant business. Once you get started and have a full client load, it’s more reliable than a 9-5.

Wanna chat about it? Send me a DM.

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30/08/2023

In the beginning…you loved it.

He took care of everything.

The bills
Your cell phone
Credit cards
Your car
Gave you money

He said, “You don’t have to worry about a thing. I’ll take care of it.”

You thought, “He Loves me. He takes such good care of me.”

He married you and gave you the world.

Then, he turned into a different person.

Now that your relationship is over…

He’s left you with nothing.

Not even a way to take your kids to McDonald’s on Friday night.

It was covert… undetected…but he isolated you and made you totally reliant on him.

To the degree that you have absolutely nothing in your name.

Now you’re begging for child support, and he’s playing in your face.

Let’s change that, Sis.

Because depending on child support from your ex gives him too much power.

✔ You can become an in-demand VA working from home with your kids.
✔ Virtual Assisting is the easiest and best side hustle to start.
✔ Let that child support be a bonus, not a way to pay your bills.
✔ So you don’t walk on eggshells for his money.
✔ A Virtual Assistant business means having choices, freedom, and options.
✔ Don’t be financially controlled by your current circumstances.
✔ Don’t let him have financial control over you and your life with your kids.

Need a step-by-step guide to help you build a sustainable VA biz?

Inside the Virtual Assistant Success Academy, we’ll create the foundations of your virtual assistant business, teach you how to find clients and make enough f**k you money to have a flexible business that helps you live your dream life and experience the financial freedom you desire.

If you are ready to build and grow a successful virtual assistant business, I invite you to join the Virtual Assistant Success Academy.

Questions? Drop them below or DM me if you need the link to join.

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28/08/2023

Just because you’re a stay-at-home mom and “he” works doesn't mean you’re not entitled to “his” money.

He can only go to work so comfortably and leave you at home because…

💥You take care of the home.
💥You take care of the children.
💥You do the grocery shopping.
💥You cook.
💥You clean.

You take care of ALL the other stuff he doesn’t.

He does “his” half, and “you” do your half.

It’s 50/50.
A partnership.

Your labor matters. It MATTERS.

If he’s told you, it’s “his” money. He’s dead ass wrong.

Financial abuse in marriage is when one partner exerts financial control over the other. It may involve fostering financial dependence by limiting the ability to work or access money.

If you’re looking for a way to escape this situation OR make your OWN money and gain financial independence…consider starting your virtual assistant business.

A virtual assistant business will allow you to:

✨Make your own money to become financially independent
✨Be your own boss
✨Become an in-demand VA working from home with your kids.
✨Not be financially controlled by your current circumstances.

⭐️A Virtual Assistant business means having choices, freedom, and options. ⭐️

Inside the Virtual Assistant Success Academy, we’ll create the foundations of your virtual assistant business, teach you how to find clients and make enough f**k you money to have a flexible business that helps you live your dream life and experience the financial freedom you desire.

If you are ready to build and grow a successful virtual assistant business, I invite you to join the Virtual Assistant Success Academy.

Questions? Drop them below or DM me if you need the link to join.

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25/07/2023

"Financial abuse is not just about money; it's about power, control, and manipulation." - Unknown

💔 Financial abuse is a web of power, control, and manipulation disguised as money matters. Remember, it's not just about the dollars; it's about safeguarding our dignity and freedom. 💪

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08/07/2023

Transforming your current circumstances requires more than just ideas - it takes action.

It's not enough to have a great plan; you must put in the work to make it a reality.

Start that business, Sis.

Come up with a business name.
Get your EIN
Get legal with your state.

The road to success is paved with hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks.

Don't be afraid to leave your comfort zone (9-5 | SAHM) and make things happen (start your virtual assistant business).

Remember, the only thing standing between you and depending on your ex to fork over child support is the action you take.

So go out there, put in the work, and make your dreams a reality. What action will you take today to move closer to your goals and make child support a bonus?

Are you ready to take action and start your virtual assistant business?

Visit the link in our bio to learn more, or DM us your questions – we're here to help you every step of the way!

Let's embark on this transformative journey together.

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06/07/2023

From struggling to thriving: witness the power of starting a virtual assistant business in action!

Don't wait. Transform your life today and see the results for yourself.

Visit the link in our bio to learn more, or DM us your questions – we're here to help you every step of the way!

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04/07/2023

This step-by-step guide will unlock your way to start and build the foundations of a virtual assistant business and leave your toxic, financially abusive relationship behind.

You'll be amazed at what you can achieve when you fully leverage the power of unlocking your skills and talents to break free to financial independence by starting a virtual assistant business.

Ready to get started?

Head to the link in my bio, download the action plan and get started.

Questions? Send me a DM.

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03/07/2023

Start your week with this reminder::

"Financial abuse is a silent weapon that destroys independence, freedom, and self-worth within a relationship." - Unknown

It's the driving force behind everything we do here at When The Fairytale Ends to help you create a path out of this.

Erase your money anxiety by starting a virtual assistant business so you can;

✅Have an emergency fund
✅Pay bills on time
✅Have a budget and start creating life and money goals
✅Take your kids on vacation
pay for summer camp
✅Pay for school supplies, & school clothes

➡️without depending on child support from your ex.

Click the link in my bio and schedule a 15-minute discovery call to see how to start your own business and create a path to freedom.

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