08/07/2019
WHY ‘HINTING TOUCH” IS SO AROUSING FOR WOMEN, AND HOW TO ENJOY IT
Would you like to become a better lover and share more pleasure with your woman?
If so,
Were you ever making out with a woman who seemed aroused but suddenly switched off?
There can be many reasons to that, but one of them might be that being man, you touched her as if she’s a man, instead of touching her as the woman she is.
It happened to me.
I remember dating this tall gorgeous redhead in England a few years ago.
We enjoyed being together and we made love nearly every day.
But then one day as I was hugging her from behind, I put my hand on her breast.
She immediately froze and pushed my hand away. She got a bit angry. She said she was getting aroused but the way i touched her was a total turn-off.
You see, men and women touch, and like to be touched, in different ways.
Excuse me for the broad generalizations, but most of them are true for most people.
Men are direct, they “go for it”, while women are indirect.
Men are about straight lines, women are about circular and curves.
Men get aroused quickly, while women take time to get aroused, to be ready for s*x, and to or**sm.
Men like their ge****ls touched much earlier than women.
So, one of the ways to arouse a woman in the way she wants to be touched, is by using the “hinting” touch.
THE HINTING TOUCH
The hinting touch is like saying “I know your body/mouth/breasts/ass/vagina/whatever is right there, and I’m going to take my time going all around it before getting there”.
As you are holding a woman, you constantly “hint” towards her erogenous zones, by going near them or around and around them.
“Hinting touch” is sometimes referred to as “teasing” but this word has some negative connotations so I much prefer the term “hinting”.
There are a few benefits to the “hinting” touch.
The hinting touch:
* Arouses and pleasures her more than the “direct” touch
* Builds trust and connection
* Helps her feel more safe and relaxed with you
* Improves your sensitivity and intuition
* Brings more pleasure to you and your body
* Creates more whole body pleasure and possibly whole-body or**sms
* Helps you move away from “goal-oriented s*x”
* Is healing and empowering, specifically for women whose boundaries have been crossed in the past
Hinting touch starts a long time before you actually have s*x.
Foreplay:
Foreplay is considered by many people, both men and women, to be just a warm up, a way to get someone ready for s*x.
Instead, see foreplay as a “hinting” experience.
This is a great opportunity for you to get to know her on a non-verbal level, to signal that you are appreciating everything about the s*xual interaction, that you aren’t rushing, that you would like to enjoy more of her, and that you know what you’re doing.
If foreplay is good, it’s a “hint” that s*x might be good later on.
Enjoy foreplay for its own sake.
As you are both getting aroused, you might naturally escalate towards s*x, or you might not.
So cherish every moment and anything you experience together.
Kissing:
When you kiss her, don’t try to stick your tongue as early and as deep as possible into her mouth.
Instead...
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