15/05/2023
Whyt Suprem@cy Is Not The Shark, It's The Water - Kyle "Guante" Tan Myhre
Ophélie Lawson and I had a beautifully open discussion during our Embracing Natural episode.
The experiences we shared reconfirmed that the violence of whyt suprem@cy is not something that we have to occasionally take extra caution and cover from, but it has contaminated the waters, streams, lakes and oceans of society.
So how do we cope when it feels like the when the poison gathers to form an ugly head of this monster, able to jump out at us at any place and time?
The American Psychology Association advises that "if the person committing the microaggression is someone you don't care about maintaining a relationship with, respond however you see fit if it seems safe to do so."
You can plan what you want to say and practice with friends or in front of the mirror.
Focus your criticism on the microaggression, not the microaggressor, explain how the statement or behaviour made you feel.
"Why do you say/do that?" "When people say/do that it makes me feel ____"
It can be helpful to talk things over with peers who are members of the same group as you. It will help to validate your feelings and re-establish your sense of belonging.
If you're a bystander and an Allie, avoid speaking on behalf of the targeted person by starting with could start with "Why do you say/do that?" "Here's why I'm offended, upset or hurt."
Although we know society is riddled with systematic racism, we should do our best to honour our truest selves.
By shedding the skin of col0nial expectation, we are reborn to hold our own and open up space where we can all grow and evolve into a safer, fairer society.
If you have other effective ways of confronting racial aggressions, please do share.
🖤One Love
Natalya
The Organic Afro