09/09/2025
‘I did the best I could with what I had'. For unpaid , that means we rise, we adapt, we invent, we show up.
It’s also intense — 1 in 3 of us are ‘in the red’. And like Emma Heming Willis spelling out what that means for her family, we're all making choices based on what works for us with the resources and information we have. And that means:
• Figuring out what to do with our intensity. It’s different for each of us.
• Giving ourselves grace — we ARE doing the best we can.
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"Dementia plays out differently in everyone's home and you have to do what's right for your family dynamic and what's right for your person."
Emma Heming Willis is showing us the quiet, heart-wrenching strength that caregivers carry. Managing her husband Bruce Willis’s progressive frontotemporal dementia (FTD) disease, an early-onset form of dementia affecting about 50,000–60,000 Americans, she made the painful but necessary choice to move him into a one-story home close to their family home that is tailored to his care needs. FTD requires a calm and serene environment, and this move has given Bruce stability, while also allowing their teen daughters to simply be kids again. "They can have playdates and sleepovers again and not have to walk around tiptoeing," Emma shared with People.
Emma is shedding a light on the impossible choices caregivers make every day. A 2025 study from AARP shows that 63 million Americans are family caregivers, a 50% increase from 2015. Caregiving is love. It’s sacrifice. It’s resilience. But too often, it’s met with judgment instead of understanding. Emma’s openness displays the strength it takes to care for someone else while also protecting your family’s well-being.
"It's heartbreaking to me. But this is how we were able to support our whole family, and it has opened up Bruce's world."