Carla Marie

24/05/2025

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They’ll tell you that you broke the family.

But here’s the truth, you broke the silence .

You stopped smiling through the pain,
Stopped staying quiet just to keep a fragile peace…
That wasn’t peace, it was pretense.

For years, you watched their toxic cycles spin.
The guilt trips, the gaslighting, the endless games.
You swallowed your words until they burned,
Kept your head down, let it slide again and again.

But then it reached your kids.
And something inside you shattered wide open.

When their poison touched your babies,
The silence became a scream.
You stood tall. You spoke up.
And suddenly, you’re the villain?

No. Let’s set the record straight:
You didn’t destroy the family.
You dismantled the dysfunction.
You refused to let the same wounds scar another generation.

You broke the pattern.
Chose truth over tradition, healing over hiding.

Let them whisper. Let them blame.
Your peace was never meant to live in their shame.

This isn’t loss, it’s liberation.
You didn’t lose your voice; you found it.
And you used it, for the ones who matter most. 🖤🕊️🤍

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19/05/2025

No one has a victim complex like a man who thinks he's not a narcissist. He walks through the world convinced he's been wronged, misunderstood, and unfairly burdened by the expectations of others. In his mind, he’s not manipulative — he’s just passionate. He’s not controlling — he’s just misunderstood. He’s not dismissive — you’re just too sensitive. Every uncomfortable truth becomes a personal attack. Every boundary you set becomes a betrayal. Every time someone calls out his behavior, it only deepens his belief that he’s the real victim in the story.

He will drain you dry while insisting you’ve never given enough. He’ll take your compassion, your patience, your silence — and still find a way to say you failed him. When you finally speak up, you’ll be labeled aggressive, hysterical, cruel. You’ll be told you’re overreacting, misremembering, making things up. He’ll twist the narrative until you start to question your own mind, your own motives, your own worth. He doesn’t seek resolution — he seeks control of the story.

He’s the kind of man who will hurt you and then cry when you call it out. He’ll demand loyalty while showing none. He’ll preach forgiveness while offering no apology. He will position himself as a saint for tolerating your “flaws,” all while ignoring the wreckage he leaves behind — the trust broken, the empathy erased, the connection scorched. To him, consequences feel like cruelty. Accountability feels like abuse. He cannot be the villain because in his mind, he’s always the one who tried the hardest, loved the most, and lost everything because no one ever really saw him.

He turns every confrontation into a courtroom where he plays both the victim and the defense attorney, exhausting you with circular logic and emotional sleight-of-hand. You’ll leave conversations feeling like you’ve done something wrong, even when all you did was ask for respect. And if you finally walk away? That’s just more proof — to him — that people always abandon him, that no one is ever good enough to stay, that once again, he was too much or too real for this world.

But behind that mask of self-pity is a man who refuses to grow. He confuses attention with love, pity with connection, control with safety. He doesn’t want a relationship — he wants an audience. And the moment you stop playing your role in his drama, the curtain drops and the rage begins.

Because no one has a victim complex like a man who thinks he's not a narcissist — and nothing threatens him more than the person who finally sees through the performance."

15/11/2024

Heal the world, one heart at a time... 💖

I love clever minds that are kind
The world is mostly clever minds who are cruel
Most get pretty much offended by anything these days
It tells me one thing
Those minds are deeply offended by their own lack of deep alignment to Truth
You will always get offended and defensive by another's truth
If you have not fully intergrated in your own sense of self
If you do know who you are
You will fight to the death with savage aurgumentitive cruelty, and fight another to approve and accept you
Because IN Truth
Only a person who is at peace with themselves can be at peace with others
No matter if another agrees with them or not.
I love kind people
Because kind people are conscious of their connection to the ALL of life, they are the most courageous
Because you need to have much courage to hold your tongue in the face of much ridiculousness than comes from unconscious unhealed trauma
One has to be absolutely deeply rooted in Love, in the power that IS the very fabric of LIFE itself
Love of self, love of Creator
love and respect for another's right to BE
This does not mean the call to boundaries is lost
It simply means there is no point to argue with anothers anger and self loathing,
Because those are the ones too weakened within, with no moral muscle that has been strengthened to be the compass by which they follow the Light within..
Their guide is just sheer anger and pain,
and need create chaos for their own unhealed trauma to thrive
Yes, I love kind people
Because we are healing the world,
One act of kindness at a time..
Ah-men

26/08/2024

As I was saying...
(Not exactly the same post as yesterday- but similar, read it to the end..)
🥰❤️🙌🏻
👇🏼this resonates with my current experience...

When a man is gentle, soft, and listens to you, that's when your nervous system begins to heal.

That's why some women have that special shine when they are being loved right in a relationship.

It's not love itself, it's emotional security.

When a man creates an environment where you feel heard and valued, your stress levels decrease.

Your body responds to this emotional security by releasing hormones that promote relaxation and happiness.

This deep feeling of calm can lead to better physical health, better sleep and a radiant appearance.

When a man shows consistency in his actions and words, he builds trust.

Trust is the basis of emotional security.

Knowing that you can trust your partner and that they will be there for you in times of need makes you feel safe.

This trust allows you to open up and be vulnerable, deepening the emotional connection between you.

When a man respects your limits and understands your needs, it reinforces your sense of self-esteem.

Feeling respected and valued in a relationship contributes to your general emotional well-being.

It helps you maintain a positive image of yourself and increases your confidence, which is often reflected in your behavior and appearance.

When a man supports your personal growth and encourages your aspirations, he creates a nutritious environment for both partners.

This mutual support promotes a sense of association and equality, making you feel empowered.

The trust and satisfaction that arise from pursuing your goals with the support of your partner enhance your inner and exterior beauty.

When a man communicates openly and honestly, it encourages a sense of transparency and understanding.

Effective communication reduces misunderstandings and conflicts, allowing you to feel more connected and understood.

This emotional clarity and harmony contribute to a peaceful and loving relationship, which is often visible in your general glow and happiness.

When a man shows empathy and compassion, he strengthens the emotional bond.

Knowing that your partner really cares about your feelings and experiences creates a deep sense of intimacy.

This emotional closeness makes you feel appreciated and appreciated, improving your emotional and physical well-being.

When a man shares responsibilities and collaborates in daily life, it relieves stress and promotes a balanced relationship.

Sharing the burden and working together as a team reinforces the sense of association.

This balance helps to maintain harmony and reduces the burden of any person, allowing both partners to thrive and feel supported.

When a man expresses love and affection through small consistent gestures, he maintains the relationship vibrant.

These acts of kindness and consideration show that he is attentive and cares about your happiness.

The cumulative effect of these positive interactions contributes to a lasting sense of joy and joy.

When a man gives priority to spending quality time with you, he strengthens the connection.

Shared experiences and moments of union create lasting memories and deepen the bond.

This quality time helps you feel valued and loved, improving your emotional security and your general sense of well-being.

When a man is gentle, gentle, and listens to you, it's not just about romantic gestures; it's about creating a safe space for your heart and soul.

This emotional security allows you to bloom, bringing out your natural shine and beauty.

The essence of a loving relationship lies in the emotional security and trust that nourish both partners, allowing them to grow and shine together.

~Unknown author

27/03/2024

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Some common terms to learn for becoming 5D:

🌿 To 'hold space' for someone = To sit and stare at someone with emotional issues for an uncomfortable amount of time, then pat yourself on the back for basically doing nothing while they have a breakdown.

🌿 I'm in transition = I'm unemployed and totally fu***ng lost, so I have created an identity out of being an opportunist. Maybe you have some trim work for me or food? Or a trade? I do crystal readings!

🌿 I'm processing a lot of downloads from the Universe = I smoked too much DMT and can’t afford therapy. By pretending that my fragile brain is a sacred record keeper, I receive validation for speaking gibberish.

🌿 I'm a lightworker/empath = I am depressed and unstable and take zero responsibility for my own self-destructive tendencies, and need to focus on condescending your dark s**t to avoid my own. (PS: I'll diagnose you as a narcissist)

🌿 I am a Reiki Master= I crave human contact, And this makes me feel less insecure than Tinder. I can cross personal physical boundaries with ease if I so choose, depending on what my client looks like, or I can think about random things while getting paid handsomely to hold my hands awkwardly over someone’s body.

🌿 You have an amazing Aura = I would love to bang you.

🌿 I am writing a travel blog = I don't want to go home, I no longer fit in: I never have. I don't know where I will end up, but I’d like to get paid to figure it out.

🌿 I'm not looking for a relationship/ only deep soul connections = I have commitment issues and fear of intimacy so I collect partners with compatible insecurities. I understand you will head off to Thailand soon anyways. “Bread-crumbing my love keeps me safe” is my mantra, while I dip my dick like a candlestick in every Shanti ratchet priestess in town.

🌿 'Inner Goddess Within' workshops = An understanding of daddy Issues and a way to overdevelop the masculine side to protect the little girl within. Helping participants to surrender to the bias that all men are s**t ( all of this for a nominal fee). The level 2 masterclass will teach you how to galactivate your man’s sc***um chakra enough to make him forget that you pay for bulls**t workshops with his harvest money.

🌿 A guru = Someone who has overstepped the threshold of self-development into supreme egotism and found a niche market. Carries a flute and has a name you can't pronounce (though his driver's license says Steve) and chants words he doesn’t understand. But interesting tattoos...right?

🌿 A shaman = see above.

🌿 Worshipping the Beloved = Classic scenario where a cluster B personality type convinces you at a festival that you are their twin flame, lost for centuries in the ether. If you have never been loved by your primary caregivers, this is paradise on earth as your fear of abandonment gets spanked with a mala on the magical, mystery tour of self-deception.

🌿 In the flow = I never commit to anything, especially plans to do anything with anyone, so that I can completely flake out and not take any responsibility for it; ie I didn’t pay my phone bill this month.

🌿 Co-creating a retreat/gathering = my borderline personality friends and I have exhausted all other means of making an honest income, and have decided instead to use our social media clout (aka naked bu******ks) to radically overcharge a too-large group of saps for 2-14 days of mediocre vegan food, awkward group encounters, and real-world-style sexual politics.

🌿 Substance Free Event = Powder drugs are fine but if you bring alcohol, we’ll judge the s**t out of you. Tobacco’s cool if you snort it and call it "ceremony" or roll your own.

🌿 Speaking My Truth = I reserve the right to be an as***le in this conversation and you must honour it, regardless of how deep my delusion may be. I’ll probably use this phrase every time I don’t want to be called out for my phoney bulls**t, because it’s all perspective man...”

Author Unknown

08/03/2024

Strong Women: May we know them, may we be them, and may we raise them!! ✊🏼💕🥰💪🏼

20/01/2024

AMen 🙏🏼💖

16/01/2024

❤️

06/01/2024

-"If you Would Like to CHANGE your Experience, it is Important to CHANGE what you BElief about your SELF."....... read below 👇🏼

*take what resonates and leave the rest
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💖 lots of love, Carla, Mother of Ivy ###

ENERGY UPDATE BY ADAMA OF TELOS – 06.01.2024

"Greetings, Beloved Ones.

We are Most JOYOUS to CONNECT with You HERE, Today, and We Are Sending You Our Utmost LOVE from the Heart of Telos.

Beloved One, Every Moment of your Life Experience is a REFLECTION of your INNER Thoughts, Feelings and Most Importantly - BEliefs You Have.

As you are Moving through your ASCENSION, the Concept you have of your SELF is Constantly Broadcasting into your REALITY What you BElieve to BE True.

Every Night, Before you Go to Sleep, you are PROJECTING this Concept of your SELF into the Next Day.

If you Would Like to CHANGE your Experience, it is Important to CHANGE what you BElief about your SELF.

Here is a Process to SHIFT your REALITY:

Before you Go to Sleep, BEgin to Contemplate a NEW VERSION of your SELF.

In your Imagination, BEgin to See your SELF Experiencing your Desired Reality, as a NEW VERSION of your SELF.

What Would the BEST VERSION of you Feel, Look and Act Like?

How Would this NEW VERSION of your SELF Experience the World?

How Would you INTERACT with Others?

Then, as you Drift into Sleep, you are BEginning to RESET your REALITY towards your DESIRED REALITY, by a Degree or So.

The Next Day, your World Might STILL Look the Same way.

But, you Will FEEL Slightly DIFFERENT.

Some Experiences Might STILL BE the Same.

Some Will BE NEW and DIFFERENT.

Try to Maintain the NEW FEELING You Had When You Woke Up.

The Next Night, Repeat the Process of Imagining a NEW VERSION of your SELF.

Again, the Next Day, you Will FEEL Slightly Different and More Experiences will LEAN towards your DESIRED REALITY.

Sometimes, the CHANGES will BE Subtle, Sometimes, the CHANGES will BE BIGGER.

Keep Maintaining the NEW FEELINGS.

It Might BE that you FEEL More PEACEFUL, CALMER and More in HARMONY.

Perhaps, your Physical Body FEELS Slightly BETTER.

BEcome Aware of these CHANGES and Continue to Apply this Process Every Night.

This is a POWERFUL PROCESS to SHIFT your Reality towards the HIGHER Dimensions.

We Champion Your VICTORY in the LIGHT!

Welcome HOME!

We Send You ALL So Much LOVE...

You are Carried on the Wings of Angels, to Bring Forth The NEW EARTH.

KNOW in your Heart, that you are Always Surrounded by your Angels, Ascended Masters, Guides, Galactic Families of LIGHT and Yes, Also by your Family and Friends in Telos - and Always will BE.

Dear Ones, We Are Walking with you on this Journey and you are LOVED Beyond Measure - Always.

I AM your Brother ADAMA of Telos."

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Thank You, Adama! 🙂

Channelled through Asara Adams 🤍
https://www.teloschannel.com

Within DIVINE LOVE of ONE 🤍
Pars Kutay

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Photo: Vermillion Lake, Mount Rundle, Banff Canmore, Alberta, Canada captured by William Orsua