30/10/2024
Sometimes the people closest in our life are the people that hold us back from creating the life that we desire...
These people have been in our lives for so long, like your partner, husband or your mom and they think they know you very well and you probably think that, too.
But often times without realising, their mindset and their insecurities and their projections onto you are the very reason you are not believing in yourself, you are judging yourself or you are doubting yourself.
This is where you got to realise that their insecurities are not yours. And that you have the right to create the life that you desire to live.
That’s where you have to become aware of who in your life is holding you back from building the life you are dreaming of.
Notice how certain people in your life make you feel.
Do they leave you excited? or do they make you doubt yourself even more?
When I first wanted to start my coaching business my mom was against it as she didn’t think I had enough experience.
I know she was worried, but I also know she was projecting her own insecurities onto me.
So, I had to realise that if I wanted a different life, I had to be the one to lead the way and make different decisions than everyone else in my life was making.
That’s where I had to realise I will not be taking advice from people who are not living the life that I desire.
And that is the best thing you can do, too.