23/03/2025
Spiritual Detox Reflection: Escaping the B***y Trap
What happened to my next chapter of love?
This is more than a personal story—it's a spiritual detox. A real-life lesson born from pain, clarity, and the high road. This is for the ones who love deeply, give generously, and still get caught in the web of narcissistic seduction, mistaking intensity for intimacy.
After walking away from a long-term overt narcissist connection, I was drawn into the next karmic lesson: a covert, fire-starting, love-bombing bulldozer wrapped in sensuality but hollow in substance.
She didn’t offer love—she offered performance. She didn’t offer intimacy—she offered indulgence. And I paid the price, not just in money, but in soul-depletion.
But I don't regret it.
Because this isn’t a story about victimhood—it’s a chapter of evolution.
I came to realize that narcissists don’t take—they reveal. They reflect what parts of you still need validation, still crave to be seen, still hope someone will finally mirror the love you’ve been giving your whole life.
The Lesson? The game called life has levels. And only those who rise to play it with soul mastery—through truth, reciprocity, humility, and spiritual openness—flourish. What I encountered was someone who wanted the benefits of devotion, without offering the currency of depth. Someone who mistook taking for loving, and who wore masks to survive instead of shedding them to evolve.
She offered her body, but withheld her soul. She demanded loyalty, but denied respect. She flirted with my light, but feared her own shadow.
So I said goodbye. Not in bitterness—but in full spiritual clarity.
This is Your Detox Too If you’ve loved someone who never truly met you, this chapter is your permission slip to release the pain, reframe the story, and rise stronger. The world needs more people who are awake in their love—not addicted to pain, not looping in trauma, but able to discern the difference between passion and poison.
The experience inspired the powerful message in my bestselling book, The Narcissist's B***y Trap: How to Escape This Fatal Trap. And it aligns perfectly with my Total Health Reboot—because true health isn’t just physical. It’s mental. Emotional. Spiritual.
To reclaim your power, you must clear the toxins. Not just from your liver, but from your life.
So to those who are still entangled—take this moment as your wake-up call. To those who escaped—take this as your crown.
Live. Love. Lead. Without apology. And never again vibrate for someone who won’t rise with you.
—Dr. Chris Neveling Founder, Total Health Reboot & Author of The Narcissist’s B***y Trap
