SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association

SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association Divorce/Separation is not a breakup point in one's life, but a change of direction. www.sadsa.co.za

SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association is a Counselling, Coaching, Support and Family Mediation practice for people contemplating, undergoing or having gone through a separation/divorce.

20/09/2025

Why are so many young people feeling lost today?

It’s not about parents failing. Parenting is hard — and when things get tough, control often feels like the only option.

But here’s the truth: every parent has the capacity to lead.
Leadership in parenting isn’t about being perfect or naturally gifted — it’s about tapping into the leader already inside you.

Real leadership means:
🔹 Guiding with clarity
🔹 Modeling responsibility
🔹 Building strong connections

When parents step into this kind of leadership, kids feel safer, more confident, and more capable of leading themselves.

Ready to tap into the leader within? I’ll be sharing practical ways to do it through the lens of my Behavioural Blueprint Model.

16/08/2025

When you change your perception, you change your past, present & future.

Your triggers don’t have to control you. With my Behavioural Blueprint Model, you can spot what’s really happening in the moment, shift from reaction to choice, and start building the relationships and life you actually want.

Curious how this could work for you? Let’s connect — I’d love to show you how one simple shift can change everything.

06/08/2025

Whatever happens in your life — whether it's love, conflict, disconnection, or growth — remember this:

You are 100% responsible for the relationships you create.

Not 50/50. Not when the other person behaves. Not when things are easy.

Every relationship you’re in — with a partner, child, colleague, co-parent — is a reflection of the choices you make:
🔹 What you say
🔹 What you accept
🔹 What you repeat
🔹 What you allow
🔹 How you respond

When you own your part fully, you stop waiting for others to change. You step into your power.

Want better relationships? Start by changing the way you show up in them.

If you’re navigating challenges in your personal or professional relationships — including separation, co-parenting, or emotional conflict — I can help.
Through my integrative approach combining Choice Theory, mediation, and emotional wellness, I support individuals and families to reset, reconnect, and relate in healthier ways.

Connect with me for more info.

24/07/2025

It’s a simple question — but it puts you back in the driver’s seat.

We often wait for the day to "go well" or for others to behave a certain way. But what if you chose the mood, the focus, the small joy, or the boundary that could make today feel better?

A good day doesn’t just happen — it’s shaped by the choices we make.

So, what’s one thing you can do today to make it a little lighter, calmer, or more meaningful?

21/07/2025

Helping families navigate conflict with compassion and expertise. Offering Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parenting Coordination, and Voice of the Child services face to face and online nationwide.
Let's work together to find solutions that work for everyone.

14/07/2025

Milestone Achieved!
I've completed my 40-hour Parenting Coordination certification. This specialised training deepens my ability to help families navigate co-parenting challenges with less conflict and more focus on what matters most - the children's wellbeing. Grateful for this opportunity to expand my toolkit in supporting families through difficult transitions.

05/07/2025

𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆'𝘀 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗖𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸:
What story am I telling myself about this situation, and is it helping me move forward?
We are master storytellers - especially when it comes to our own lives. But here's the thing: not all stories serve us.
That narrative running through your head right now? The one about why things happened, what it means about you, or where you're headed?
Pause. Question it.

Is this story empowering you or paralysing you?
Does it open possibilities or close doors?
Are you the hero of your story or the victim?

We are the editor of our own narrative. We can choose stories that move us forward instead of keeping us stuck.
Your story matters. Make sure it's one worth living.

Ready to rewrite the stories that aren't serving you? Let's explore what's possible when you take back the pen.
𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗺𝗲 to start your journey with Choice Coaching.

30/06/2025

"Imagine reading a book with no way to turn back the pages…
How carefully would you read it?"

Your life is the same. Every choice, every reaction, every chapter — written in real-time.

That’s where your Behavioural Blueprint comes in.
It helps you understand the why behind your patterns, the needs driving your choices, and the power you have to write and turn the page with intention.

Ready to stop repeating chapters and start living by design, not default?
Let’s work together. Connect with me to begin exploring your Behavioural Blueprint.

17/06/2025

"All we can give another person is information." – Dr. William Glasser
In mediation, we don’t control, convince, or coerce.
We share information.
We listen.
We create space for better choices.
That’s how real change begins.

10/06/2025

Peaceful co-parenting starts with one choice:
to do what’s best for your child — not your anger.

— Mediation Cape Town | Where Clarity Meets Choice

03/06/2025

Co-Parenting Is Not About Being Friends — It’s About Showing Up 100% for the Child Co-parenting often gets confused with “parenting together” or “getting along.” Many people…

15/05/2025

! 𝗡𝗘𝗪 𝗕𝗟𝗢𝗚 𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗧 !
What is Choice all about anyway?
Discover how conscious choice—through the Behavioural Blueprint—can help you reset your reactions, reduce emotional drama, and make decisions that align with who you truly are.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, triggered, or unsure what to do next —
𝗥𝗘𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗖𝗛𝗢𝗜𝗖𝗘 & 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗹 𝗕𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗛𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗼𝘂𝘁.
https://nadiathonnard.com/index.php/2025/05/15/what-is-choice-all-about-anyway/

Address

Flamingo Vlei
Cape Town
7441

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 17:00
Saturday 10:00 - 14:00

Telephone

+27823443343

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