DR Johann Wessels

DR Johann Wessels Dr Wessels holds the degrees MBCHB. DA and M. FamMed. He has been in Private Practice since 1997

I so often see how unresolved conflict affects people and families'  well-being. Giving parents a space where they can s...
06/03/2026

I so often see how unresolved conflict affects people and families' well-being. Giving parents a space where they can speak, listen, and find a way forward together for the family, is of great value. Proud of the work you do Tracey-Leigh Wessels Family Mediation

DURBAN FAMILY & DIVORCE MEDIATOR   Tracey-Leigh Wessels is a Durban Family & Divorce Mediator and Attorney.  She specializes in the field of  Family Law and Family & Divorce Mediation. Tracey-Leigh also has a specialist focus on Surrogacy and Reproductive Law and is among one of the few attorneys...

𝗠𝘆 𝗦𝗼𝗻 .... 𝗠𝘆 𝗖𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗴𝘂𝗲There are no words that can adequately convey our gratitude to God for this.Welcome Dr. Jayden W...
18/12/2025

𝗠𝘆 𝗦𝗼𝗻 .... 𝗠𝘆 𝗖𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗴𝘂𝗲

There are no words that can adequately convey our gratitude to God for this.

Welcome Dr. Jayden Wessels to the most beautiful profession of them all. May you enjoy it and learn from it as much as I have and continue to do. We are so looking forward to having you back home with us as you begin your internship from the new year at Addington Hospital.

For those currently navigating ongoing conflict, this may be something that could help you in your attempts to resolve t...
09/10/2025

For those currently navigating ongoing conflict, this may be something that could help you in your attempts to resolve the conflict.

DURBAN FAMILY & DIVORCE MEDIATOR   Tracey-Leigh Wessels is a Durban Family & Divorce Mediator and Attorney.  She specializes in the field of  Family Law and Family & Divorce Mediation. Tracey-Leigh also has a specialist focus on Surrogacy and Reproductive Law and is among one of the few attorneys...

𝗟𝗢𝗢𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗪𝗘𝗟𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗬 𝗕𝗟𝗨𝗙𝗙 𝗣𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗠𝗬 𝗡𝗘𝗪 𝗥𝗢𝗢𝗠𝗦From the 1st of October I will be seeing my Bluff (& surro...
30/09/2025

𝗟𝗢𝗢𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗪𝗘𝗟𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗬 𝗕𝗟𝗨𝗙𝗙 𝗣𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗠𝗬 𝗡𝗘𝗪 𝗥𝗢𝗢𝗠𝗦

From the 1st of October I will be seeing my Bluff (& surrounding areas) patients from my new rooms at Island View Centre, 19 Island View Road, Fynnlands, Bluff.

𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦

Bluff: Mornings only

(Wednesdays & afternoons at the Entabeni Practice)

𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗖𝗧 𝗡𝗨𝗠𝗕𝗘𝗥

031 007 0549

13/09/2025
So true ...
07/06/2025

So true ...

This quote captures something I see so often in mediation (and in life too)...

When we feel hurt or attacked, it’s so tempting to meet fire with fire. But fire only escalates the conflict.

Real resolution comes when someone has the courage to bring "water" instead.

Water lowers the emotional temperature.
While anger is hot, fierce, and flame-like, water is calm, soothing, and reflective.

Choosing to bring water to a high conflict situation is not weak, it is wise and it is strategic !

Sure, it takes a great of mental control and a lot of emotional intelligence to respond softly when emotions are burning hot. But there is also the reward of knowing that you did not participate in burning down the bridge but rather doused the flames before they could get to the bridge.

Water shows up in many small but powerful ways:

* a soft, gentle response

* a silent pause before speaking

* empathic listening that seeks to understand

* a reflective question that opens up the heart of the issue

* a non-confrontational and non-revengeful presence

"Water" is self-control in the face of potential destruction.

As a mediator, I so often get to witness how fast things can escalate when people start mirroring each other’s anger:

* A glare is met with a glare.
* A sharp tone receives a sharper tone.
* And, a disagreement suddenly spirals into threats and counter-threats.

What I’m most grateful for in those moments, before the fire consumes the relationship, is the tools at my disposal to cool those flames (fortunately, you do not need to be a mediator to be able to use these tools which include):

* curiosity as to what is actually happening in the mind and heart of the aggrieved person
* quiet, attentive listening
* gentle questioning
* reframing
* reflective enquiry
*giving the agrrieved person the space to be heard
* and many more....

Critically, at the end of the day, water doesn’t just put out a fire it brings healing. And in a conflict situation, that might be the most powerful tool we have to stop the flames from spreading and to reduce the damage before everything is burned beyond repair.

I would love to hear from you on this subject.

10/09/2024

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𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗣𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗟𝗦 - 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗖𝗢𝗥𝗥𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗪𝗔𝗬 𝗧𝗢 𝗨𝗦𝗘 𝗔 𝗡𝗢𝗦𝗘 𝗦𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗬

After thirty years in Private Practice as a GP, I am still amazed at how often some treatments fail due to patients using the wrong technique.

I have entitled this post: Practice Pearls, due to the fact that this tip is so simple and so easy that once I have shown you, you will never get it wrong again.

Initially, I was looking for a YouTube video that I could direct my patients to on how to use a nose spray, but having seen about ten with none of them quite "fitting the bill" for what I wanted for my patients, I decided to do this video myself.

I hope that this helps.

Kind regards
𝙅𝙤𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙣

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀!July is Mental Illness Awareness Month, and we want to take this moment to ackn...
18/07/2024

𝗧𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀!

July is Mental Illness Awareness Month, and we want to take this moment to acknowledge and thank mental health professionals and their support staff for their dedication to supporting and healing others. Your commitment and compassion make a profound difference in the lives of so many !!

𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗡𝗞 𝗬𝗢𝗨

𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀As July is Mental Illness Awareness Month, this is a good time to talk openly about this subje...
14/07/2024

𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀

As July is Mental Illness Awareness Month, this is a good time to talk openly about this subject.

Let us start by looking at the differences between anxiety and depression, two of the most common mental health conditions that many people struggle with. Please note that what follows hereafter is not meant to be read as a medical textbook but to make these two conditions understandable for the lay-person.

Anxiety often manifests as worry, fear, unease, and restlessness.

Its physical symptoms include
# A“racing” heart,
# sweating,
# difficulty concentrating, and
# abdominal pain.

Anxiety can make daily tasks feel overwhelming and lead to avoidance behaviours. Anxiety often occurs as a reaction to stress, but it can also occur without any stress triggers.

The World Health Organization sets out the various different types of anxiety disorders and these range from generalised anxiety disorders (which is defined as a persistent and excessive worry about daily activities or events), to panic disorders (which involve sudden onset panic attacks) and social anxiety disorders (which includes the fear of being watched or judged by others). The above list of anxiety disorders is not exhaustive.

Depression on the other hand is characterized by
# persistent feelings of sadness,
# hopelessness,
# helplessness,
# low energy levels and
# loss of interest in activities once enjoyed.

Both anxiety and depression can affect one's sleep and appetite, cause restlessness, and impact on one’s energy levels, making it hard to find joy in life.

Practically speaking I sometimes explain anxiety as feeling like one is in a long dark tunnel, but still being able to see a faint glimmer of light in the distance. Depression on the other hand is like being in a dark, cold tunnel where one cannot see anything but what is immediately in front of one. Anxiety might become depression when that faint glimmer of light disappears, and it feels as if things will never change.

It can be said that both conditions, which although different, have some common features and are part of a continuum that can move from thriving, to surviving, to struggling, to going into crisis and needing urgent intervention.

What I have found is that most people are quite willing to admit that they are anxious (which they might also communicate as being “stressed”). Most people do not however like to say that they are depressed, nor do they like to be diagnosed as being depressed.

The stigma associated with depression is as sad as it is concerning, primarily because it stops people from seeking the necessary help.

The are a number of different options available for the treatment of anxiety and depression (depending on the severity of the anxiety and depression) - two main treatment options are psychotherapy and medication. In addition to this, getting adequate sleep, good nutrition, regular exercise (daily is best); avoiding alcohol, limiting caffeine intake, joining an anxiety or depression support group also assist with the treatment of anxiety and/or depression. Critically though, the aforesaid are of an add-on nature, and are not the main treatment options for cases of severe depression and/or anxiety.

From my experience, the optimal medical treatment for anxiety, is actually an anti-depressant. The reason for this is because many of the medications that work mainly on treating anxiety, are OFTEN addictive and as a result will over time lose their efficacy. (Like the Benzodiazepine group). MOST anti-depressants on the other hand are NOT addictive and do not lose their efficacy over time.

𝗣𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗦𝗘 𝗖𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛𝗖𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗢𝗩𝗜𝗗𝗘𝗥 if you are uncertain about your current medication regime; or if you are not feeling well on your current medication.

𝗣𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗦𝗘 𝗗𝗢 𝗡𝗢𝗧 go off any medication that your healthcare provider may have prescribed for you, without FIRST discussing this with your healthcare provider - a sudden stop from taking medication could have disastrous effects on your physical and mental well-being.

In a nutshell, if you have any of the symptoms of anxiety or depression and are finding it increasingly difficult to get up in the morning, or you wake up with a high level of fear and trepidation, it is definitely best for you to see your health care provider and to discuss with him or her, your best treatments options going forward.

𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀.

𝗢𝗣𝗘𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗗𝗔𝗬, 𝟮𝟯 𝗔𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗟 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟰𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗘:Bluff Eco Park, Office Park 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦:Monday   8:00am to 1:00pmTuesday   8:0...
20/04/2024

𝗢𝗣𝗘𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗗𝗔𝗬, 𝟮𝟯 𝗔𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗟 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟰

𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗘:
Bluff Eco Park, Office Park

𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦:
Monday 8:00am to 1:00pm
Tuesday 8:00am to 1:00pm
Thursday 8:00am to 1:00pm
Friday 8:00am to 1:00pm

𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗖𝗧 𝗗𝗘𝗧𝗔𝗜𝗟𝗦
Same as for the Entabeni Rooms - 031 007 0549

𝗜 𝗔𝗠 𝗟𝗢𝗢𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗦𝗘𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗬𝗢𝗨 !!

𝗝𝗢𝗛𝗔𝗡𝗡

𝗔𝗡 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗠𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗔𝗚𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗚 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗘𝗡This morning I was reflecting on pregnancy awareness week that was held two weeks ba...
17/02/2024

𝗔𝗡 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗠𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗔𝗚𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗚 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗘𝗡

This morning I was reflecting on pregnancy awareness week that was held two weeks back, and I thought I would send out an important message to my patients, particularly the young women of child-bearing age:

If you are sexually active, please ensure that you take folic acid supplements.

Folic acid helps to prevent neural tube defects. This is a severe birth defects of the brain and spine, such as spina bifida and anencephaly which occur in the first few weeks of pregnancy, often before a woman even knows that she is pregnant !!

My advice is that all women of reproductive age should take folic acid daily, even if they're not planning on falling pregnant....and to add to that, it is important to be know that Folic Acid is not just essential for those who are pregnant or wanting to fall pregnant , it offers a wide range of benefits to all.

Johann

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗩𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗘𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 & 𝗗𝗲𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆Antenatal care during pregnancy is crucial f...
08/02/2024

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗩𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗔𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗘𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 & 𝗗𝗲𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆

Antenatal care during pregnancy is crucial for a number of reasons:

𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧'𝙨 𝙋𝙝𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝

Regular antenatal visits allow healthcare providers to monitor the health of the pregnant woman. This includes tracking her blood pressure, weight, and any symptoms or complications that may arise during pregnancy such as gestational diabetes or preeclampsia

𝙈𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙤𝙚𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝

Antenatal care involves various screenings and tests to monitor the growth and development of the fetus. These tests can identify any potential abnormalities or conditions early on, allowing for timely interventions or treatments.

𝙋𝙧𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨

Early detection of complications such as preterm labor, infections, or birth defects can significantly improve outcomes for both the mother and the baby. Antenatal care provides an opportunity to address these issues before they become serious.

𝙍𝙞𝙨𝙠 𝘼𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 & 𝙈𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩

Antenatal screenings crucially helps identify women who may be at higher risk for certain pregnancy complications or adverse outcomes. This allows healthcare providers to implement appropriate interventions or where necessary, to refer the woman to specialized care.

𝙋𝙨𝙮𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙤𝙜𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙒𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧

Antenatal care provides a pregnant woman with a supportive environment where she can receive emotional support from her healthcare provider.

Address

Suite 3, Ground Floor, Medical Centre West , Life Entabeni Hospital
Durban
4001

Opening Hours

Monday 08:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 08:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 08:00 - 17:00
Thursday 08:00 - 17:00
Friday 08:00 - 17:00
Saturday 08:00 - 12:00

Telephone

+27310070549

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