15/11/2025
๐๐๐ง๐๐ฎ๐โ๐๐ฉ๐ค๐ง๐ฎ๐๐๐ก๐ก๐๐ฃ๐
๐๐ข๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ข๐๐ฃ ๐ ๐๐ง๐ช๐ก๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ข
This morning, something shifted in me.
I listened to a message about being intentional โ about showing up boldly for your life, your dreams, and your business. And it hit me so deeply.
For the longest time, I felt guilty for being the way I am:
outspoken, expressive, transparent, direct, open, emotional, honest.
Iโve always been the person who speaks from the heart, who says what I feel, who doesnโt hide behind mystery or silence.
But somewhere along the way, I convinced myself that maybe people prefer the quiet onesโฆ the reserved onesโฆ the โlow-key, exclusiveโ ones.
I thought maybe Iโm the problem because Iโm not that type.
But today I realized something powerful:
There is nothing wrong with being open.
There is nothing wrong with being expressive.
There is nothing wrong with being ME.
My voice is not a flaw โ itโs a gift.
My transparency is not โtoo muchโ โ itโs my strength.
My confidence is not arrogance โ itโs alignment.
My presence is not loud โ itโs alive.
Trying to dim myself has only made me feel smaller, and thatโs not who God created me to be.
The truth is: you cannot build the life you want by shrinking.
So today, Iโm choosing me.
The real me.
The expressive, intentional, bold, vocal, passionate woman Iโve always been.
And if youโre reading this and youโve ever felt guilty for being yourself โ hear me clearly:
There is power in your authenticity.
There is beauty in your voice.
And there is space in this world for exactly who you are.
Iโm done shrinking.
Iโm done apologizing.
Iโm done comparing.
Iโm choosing to show up โ fully, loudly, intentionally.
Because my voice is part of my purpose. ๐ซ