15/04/2026
I’ve had the wildest week ever… 😅
My website was down for 48 hours because the whole server crashed (stress levels = 📈), but thankfully it’s finally back up and running again 🙌
Both my kids have been home from school too… I was convinced my little one had hand, foot and mouth, but thankfully it turned out to just be a rash and it cleared up with no other symptoms 🤍
In between all of that, I was blessed with a new couch so I sold my old one… and wow, that turned into a whole situation.
I’m usually very clued up when it comes to scams — I stick to cash or instant transfers and move money immediately. This time, the guy said he was struggling to pay and sent an eWallet (which I’ve used many times before).
As soon as he collected the couch, he blocked me everywhere — WhatsApp, calls, even Facebook 🚩
I went to withdraw the money… nothing. And honestly, every cent matters — especially when you’re trying to pour back into your community like I do.
But something didn’t sit right with me, so I tracked him down 👀 reached out to him and even contacted a few family members.
Eventually, he unblocked me and I got my money back. Whether it was a “mistake” or not… I’m just glad I didn’t let it go.
But here’s the part I’ve really been sitting with lately...
I love what I do 🤍 I love showing up, helping where I can, and building something meaningful.
But I think because of that… people have started expecting more from me than I can realistically give.
My inbox is constantly filled with requests — asking me to pay their electricity, school fees, give gifts…new TVs🙃
and some of them are really heavy.
And the truth is… it weighs on me.
Because I care.
Because I wish I could help everyone.
Because I know what it feels like to need support.
But I’m also just one person.
A mama of two.
Trying to build something, sustain my own home, and still give back where I can.
Giving should never feel like pressure.
And lately… it has.
So this is just me gently saying — I’m doing what I can, when I can 🤍
And I hope that can be enough for now.
I truly believe there’s still so much good in people… but we also need to remember that even the ones who give… need space, grace, and understanding too.
With love,
Mzansi Mama❤️