18/12/2025
Some radical notes as this year comes to a gentle close.
My devotion to the work of women is my devotion to the work of collective healing.
Women, as (who will be part of our Racial Woman) so aptly says, “the suppression of women & their biological intelligence is the suppression of the very mechanisms that generate light & life.”
I often get asked, “but what about men” & my answer remains the same, wo(men) - includes men - even the word itself holds them.
A woman, embodied, liberated, connected to her womb & heart is a literal portal for men to birth through.
A woman who has done the messy, dirty, & excruciating work of dearmouring her heart & womb meets men (her lovers, brothers, partners) from a place of true compassion & connection.
A mother who is supported, protected, well-nourished & resourced becomes the bedrock for the entire family.
Without doing the radical work of meeting our rage & grief & generational trauma, as women, we are incapable of “birthing” (in all its manifestations) the harmonious Earth we all ache for.
This year I have had the most delicious & healing relationships with men.
Men who have walked by my side for over a decade & who continue to show up & reveal to me where I myself have finally come into a GENUINE place of softening into their generous & supportive arms.
As says, “people don’t like their hate interrupted.”
The most radical thing we can possibly do is reach beyond the binary & CHOOSE LOVE.
And this love is uncomfortable.
It is not that disassociated “love & light” stuff we all know to be false light.
It is the messy dirty dark & delicious love that takes you UNDER and IN.
It is the composting of lifetimes of hurt & resentment to finally stand up & shout from the rooftops:
I AM READY TO LOVE & BE LOVED.
(Continued in the comments)
