Annette Müller

Annette Müller Annette is a women's empowerment and embodiment guide and the founder of Wild Nettle. Copyright, 2021, Wild Nettle PTY (Ltd)

TO HAVE ELDERS, is RADICAL “An elder is a person recognised for age, experience, wisdom, and authority - someone who hol...
14/01/2026

TO HAVE ELDERS, is RADICAL

“An elder is a person recognised for age, experience, wisdom, and authority - someone who holds social, spiritual, or communal responsibility rather than just biological age.”
 
It is with great excitement - and honour - that I share with you the elders who are joining Radical Woman.
 
When was the last time you actually sat and listened to an elder?

Someone shaped by wisdom and devotion to what they are in service to.

Someone close enough to your own culture and reality to be recognizable, yet brave enough to step beyond it. 
 
Someone who chooses legacy over comfort, and responsibility over ease.
 

 
Grandmother wisdom that is embodied, wild, and uncorrupted by centuries of patriarchal conditioning is so rare.

It is so radical.
 
This is why these women stand out to me as personal teachers and elders - women I have had the great gift of learning with and being guided by.

These women are fierce in their loving.
Brave and loyal to their cause.

Their cause being the empowerment and liberation of ALL.

Doors close Sunday.

Link in bio to join us!



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Radical Woman Volume 2  If not YOU then who? If not NOW then when?An experiment An initiation We open the call portal in...
11/01/2026

Radical Woman
Volume 2

If not YOU then who?

If not NOW then when?

An experiment

An initiation

We open the call portal in one week.

Get your ass where your heart aches to go

;)

Love you!

MERRY MERRY FROM OUR MAD ONES TO YOURS “And so, as I write this closing musing to you and look out my window onto this v...
25/12/2025

MERRY MERRY FROM OUR MAD ONES TO YOURS

“And so, as I write this closing musing to you and look out my window onto this vast and unforgiving sea, I am reminded of all the ships she has swallowed and spat out along these rocky shores. Known to be one of the strongest currents on this earth, this is not a place for those who do not know how to heed.

There is a demand for your attention.

A claiming of your respect.

Both a fierce reverence and a humble bow.

This place is the literal meeting point of the Indian and Atlantic Oceans, where warm, life-giving waters meet a cold, ancient, austere sea. I think of it as two long-lost lovers who finally collide in explosive passion, so wrought with their raging desire that they destroy anything or anyone who dares come between their at-last embrace...”

Full essay up on my Substack.

An Ode to Our Seaside Soul Home

An Ode to the Root

An Ode to Love

Some radical notes as this year comes to a gentle close. My devotion to the work of women is my devotion to the work of ...
18/12/2025

Some radical notes as this year comes to a gentle close.

My devotion to the work of women is my devotion to the work of collective healing.

Women, as (who will be part of our Racial Woman) so aptly says, “the suppression of women & their biological intelligence is the suppression of the very mechanisms that generate light & life.”

I often get asked, “but what about men” & my answer remains the same, wo(men) - includes men - even the word itself holds them.

A woman, embodied, liberated, connected to her womb & heart is a literal portal for men to birth through.

A woman who has done the messy, dirty, & excruciating work of dearmouring her heart & womb meets men (her lovers, brothers, partners) from a place of true compassion & connection.

A mother who is supported, protected, well-nourished & resourced becomes the bedrock for the entire family.

Without doing the radical work of meeting our rage & grief & generational trauma, as women, we are incapable of “birthing” (in all its manifestations) the harmonious Earth we all ache for.

This year I have had the most delicious & healing relationships with men.

Men who have walked by my side for over a decade & who continue to show up & reveal to me where I myself have finally come into a GENUINE place of softening into their generous & supportive arms.

As says, “people don’t like their hate interrupted.”

The most radical thing we can possibly do is reach beyond the binary & CHOOSE LOVE.

And this love is uncomfortable.

It is not that disassociated “love & light” stuff we all know to be false light.

It is the messy dirty dark & delicious love that takes you UNDER and IN.

It is the composting of lifetimes of hurt & resentment to finally stand up & shout from the rooftops:

I AM READY TO LOVE & BE LOVED.

(Continued in the comments)

An Ode to Wise Women An Ode to  I spent in a week in a real living fairytale. A women’s sanctuary. A great pink womb ret...
15/12/2025

An Ode to Wise Women
An Ode to

I spent in a week in a real living fairytale. A women’s sanctuary. A great pink womb retreat. A healing farm. A truly soulful place.

Rest is Radical
Receiving is Radical
Beauty is Radical

What a profound week. Thank you sisters.

Thank you wise women and .huijskens ~ your love and attention to detail is so very felt, seen, tasted, witnessed.

Wise Women Retreats at ~ delicious.
nutritious. voluptuous. scrumptious.

Essential.




Thank you for some of these gorgeous images. And to all the wonderful wise women we got to weave with.

14/12/2025
Might just… “To be Radical is to be brave enough to FEEL everything. To BE in this world.”Calling all my fellow Radical ...
10/12/2025

Might just…

“To be Radical is to be brave enough to FEEL everything.

To BE in this world.”

Calling all my fellow Radical Women.

Doors officially open tonight.

DM for the private link.

07/12/2025

PLEASURE IS RADICAL

So this is me explaining to my sister why I invested in this self-pleasure course & how profound the recent mirror ritual was that we were invited to do.

Let me preface this by saying that self-pleasure never came naturally to me.

I had a long history of shame, violation, & body dysmorphia growing up, & so pleasure was always something I outsourced.

I relied on external stimulation & never prioritised pleasure for my own sake.

It was awkward & even icky for me because it brought up a lot of old woundings, & so let it be known that this state of sexual liberation has been many years in the making.

I also want to preface this by saying that self-pleasure is NOT about the or**sm.

This specific ritual happened to evoke a profound experience of multiple or**sms for me personally, but the intention was never about that.

My reason for joining this recent self-pleasure course was quite literally to juice up my life.

I realised I would do everything on my endless “to-do” list but take the slow sweet time to tend to my own body.

Over the past few months, I have been practicing body massage, yoni tending, root (a**s) tending, breast tending, & I believe through all of this softening & somatic opening I have been allowing my or**smic states to ripple into new waves.

When I speak of the “sneeze” or**sm I am speaking to that quick contracted “rub out” that many of us know.

What has been so incredible to experience is practicing bringing myself to states of or**sm but instead of contracting & rushing to some “finish line,” I breathe & relax & allow the energy to move freely around my body.

All I can say is pleasure is our m***a f birthright!

It was so incredibly healing to make love to myself in the mirror & literally witness myself in states of such bliss.

It started with frustration & numbness, then tears of grief for how judgemental I have been to my body & later into tears of joy & literal ecstasy for how deep my love is for this temple & for this life & for this last decade of such deep devotion to Her.

PLEASURE IS RADICAL
MAKING LOVE TO OURSELVES IS RADICAL

There are many finer details to this mirror ritual.. cntd in cmt

27/11/2025

Born from the flames
Mother of F Dragons
A great journey we’ve travelled
You and I
I and You
I love you Mother
Thanks for never dimming my fire

PS and I are available for film and stills work.

DM me!

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My offerings are an invitation back home to your body and the Earth.

We don’t have bodies.

We are bodies.

​When we connect to our bodies, we connect to our own innate wisdom and become the healers we seek.