Godly Marriage

10/12/2025

This is only for laughs🤣🤣🤣

02/12/2025

Hello family! It’s been a while😊. The reason why I was quiet? 2024 became my busiest year! After many years of prayer, tears, and holding onto hope, God answered in the most beautiful way. At 40, I was blessed with a baby girl, proof that delay is not denial.🙏🏾

My 13-year-old son is now a proud big brother, and watching them together melts my heart. Yes, the age gap is big, but so is the love. 💖

This journey has reminded me that God’s timing is perfect. When it feels late, He’s still on time. Don’t give up on the dreams that feel “past their time” — because miracles don’t expire.

To anyone still waiting, still hoping: keep the faith. The same God who remembered me will remember you too. 💫

Stay encouraged. Stay believing. Your story isn’t over; it’s unfolding. ❤️

02/12/2025

Revisiting Our Love Story: A Sunday Moment

This past Sunday after church, we decided to treat ourselves to lunch at a cozy local spot. Between bites and laughter, I found myself telling our son, “When I met your dad, he was so loving, caring, and kind.” Before I could say more, my husband smiled and added, “When I met your mum, she was kind… and she used to cook.”

We laughed, but that moment reminded me: love speaks different languages. For him, it’s acts of service; me cooking, serving, doing little thoughtful things. For me, it was his tenderness and warmth.

Sometimes, we forget how love started those small things that meant everything. Sunday reminded me that revisiting our love story isn’t about reliving the past, but reigniting the meaning behind our everyday moments.

💬 Take time to remember what made you fall in love it just might help you fall in love again

19/10/2025

How a man sees his food when you pick from his plate🤣🤣🤣

27/08/2025

Your marriage is a ministry, take it seriously.

22/04/2025

In marriage know when to confront, when to tolerate and when to pray about it🙏

05/09/2024

When I say marry a kind man, I don’t even mean a man who’s generous with money. That’s great but I mean a man who is kind, whose conscience is alive. A man who won’t expect you to come back from a long day of work and stress to cook for him when he’s been home all day. That’s kindness.

A man who won’t expect you to wake up very early in the morning, bath the kids, prepare breakfast, do home chores, still prepare for work, come back to prepare dinner, and still break the bed for his pleasure at night. That’s kindness.

A man who will say: “This is a lot on you…” You take some rest while I do it. A man who can touch pot, kettle, turn on the gas cooker and cook. A man who doesn’t think that touching pot will make his manhood disappear. That’s kindness.

A man whose compassion goes beyond gender roles. A man who understands that when he’s taking care of the baby, he’s not doing you a favor. It’s his child. It’s his responsibility. A man who does whatever he can to make sure that the family is comfortable. That’s kindness.

A man who supports your career:“babe, you have an early work day today, don’t bother about the kids and chores, I’ll do all that…” That’s kindness.

Money can buy gifts, but money cannot buy a kind and thoughtful heart. Marry a kind man and be a kind woman too. You can’t be wicked and entitled and want a kind man. If you’re a deeeemon, go to HELL and pick your fave compatible ‘deeemon.’ It works both ways, dearie.

31/07/2024

5 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE MARRYING SOMEONE

1. Are his/her intentions clear?
Nowadays there are applications like tinder and others. People go on tinder to find 'friends'. If you get connected to someone and do not ask their intentions you might be shocked when you eventually realize that they were only looking for someone to enjoy with for a few days or months, yet you thought you had found a potential husband or wife. It is critical to know what you are getting yourself into before going deep with anyone.

You will be surprised to hear the number of people who are in more than a year's 'relationship' and they have never discussed what their intentions for each other are. This conversation is often avoided. The lady hopes that one day he will pop the big question and the guy tells himself that the lady will figure out along the way. So ridiculous, right?

2. Is s/he willing to wait?
You haven't even dated for a month and she has already set her hair budget on you. She no longer buys herself any airtime for any reason. If you do not buy her airtime she will not call you or text you. You are now her sole provider. I'm not saying you cannot spoil her. Just look out for the flags.
It's the first date and he has already started touching you all over. By the time you get to a week there is no part of you that he doesn't know. If he is going to marry you why is it that he can't wait for the special day? You will have so many years together. Why rush?

For most people what I'm saying does not really matter, yet the consequences are no respecter of anyone. The movies have lied to us. In real life people don't jump so fast into bed the way it is done in movies. Take it this way, what if you end up losing the person with whom you could have settled well because it didn't work out the first day?

3. Is s/he interested in you meeting their family?
When someone loves you they mostly can't wait for you to meet their loved ones. Maybe s/he is not in good books with his or her family, but can s/he not have just one person in the family with whom they relate well? No man is an island, if someone was born and they managed to grow to this age that means there are important people in his or her life.

It is not like you should be introduced on the first day, at least there must be plans that one day you will meet the family. Be cautious when someone tells you that they do not have even one existing relative or if they do not want to talk about their family. If there are issues at least s/he will at some point need to open up so that you make a well informed decision.

4. Does his/her vision align with yours?
If s/he does not have a vision then that is a story for another day. Let's say s/he does have the vision. Does the vision align with your own vision. If you yourself do not have any vision at least do you like theirs? Is it going to disrupt your whole life positively or negatively?

What if you are the only child left to take care of your elderly parents and s/he says you are to relocate to another continent? Is there a provision that clarifies what will happen to them when you move? Marriage is not just for the two of you. You marry the whole families along with you. They might not control how you live but you cannot ignore the key issues that surround you and your family simply because you have found a lover.

5. Is s/he open about their past?
I have heard about people who have dated for months and never asked someone's surname. True story! Another one did not know his wife's birth-date until after marriage. If you are African I'm sure you know about totems. There are people who are married today and have never asked the other person's totem.
I'm only saying this to show you how people ignore learning about the other person's past before committing. Knowing his or her past is not some form of skeleton hunt. It will help you understand a lot of what you are going to see when you have settled in marriage. How to ask about the past is a skill on its own. Just kidding, I'm simply saying be subtle and make sure you get all the information you need to know before it is too late.

Once you have the answers to all the questions above, be wise enough to act accordingly. Do not deceive yourself and ignore reality. Let nothing cloud your judgement. It is better to be hurt now by walking away from trouble before it becomes a part of your life. A heartbreak from a few months relationship is better than a wound of a lifetime.

Look at the positive side of it. Finding out his or her whole goodness becomes easier when you become open minded and ask yourself these questions now. Do not postpone it. All the best ❤️

22/03/2024

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13/12/2023

The enemy will try to stop you from praying together. Choose life.