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10/01/2026

what do you think about this new feature? (Especially if you're a parent)

*Lock WhatsApp to keep your messages extra private 🔒*
App lock keeps other people from being able to open your WhatsApp. Only your face or fingerprint can unlock it, and you can set it to lock right away or up to 1 hour later.

Head to Settings, tap Privacy, and choose App lock"

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07/01/2026

How do kids find p**n in 2026?

How do kids find p**n in 2026? Learn the most common digital pipelines exposing children to p**nography—and how parents can reduce risk and protect kids online.

07/01/2026

"I don’t play online video games but am surrounded by those who do and every time I join in or watch I think there is p**nography involved here as there is more s*x involved in some of them than the pursuit of romance which, of course, is the pursuit of love. S*x or power through worldwide domination seems to be the ultimate reward in a video game, and there are many “incels”, a new term I learned and loathe, who are getting their jollies online only. They don’t even seek out real and/or healthy relationships just condemn them as they resent what they think they can’t have. They don’t even try. These games are an addiction."

06/01/2026

"Have the conversation, set the boundary"

06/01/2026

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Did you know that p**n is the 2nd most common form of human trafficking in the U.S.? The connection is not subtle; it is inherent. This is why fighting trafficking and exploitation must start upstream with p**nography.

Help us stop the demand for exploitation and say no to p**n.

Learn more here: https://buff.ly/qhKbBWn

06/01/2026

"If you’re hiding s*xual behaviors—p**n, affairs, hookups, emotional entanglements, compulsions—you can not show up honestly in therapy.
You enter that room protecting your image, not your marriage.
So, the sessions become filled with minimizing, deflecting, spiritualizing, or blame-shifting.
https://www.betrayaltraumatohealingandjoy.com/helping-resources/blog/307-why-couples-therapy-doesnt-work-before-discovery

While couples therapy is very important, when you have been betrayed by your partner/spouse, often individual therapy should come first. I am a coach (APSATS certified) based in Johannesburg South Africa. Help is available for Betrayed partners of P0rn/s3x addicts. In person or online +27 785340386 YOU'RE NOT ALONE.
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Couples therapy fails when one partner is hiding secrets. Learn why hidden addiction or affairs make marital counseling re-traumatizing for the wife and why individual recovery must precede joint therapy.

31/12/2025

New online group for women struggling with the impact of their partner's problematic s*xual behaviour (like p**n use) commencing Tuesday mornings ( ) February 2026. WhatsApp +27785340386 **nkillslove **naddiction

08/12/2025

Interesting!! "The past didn’t create perfect people—but it created mentally strong ones"

If anything, the mental strengths of older generations remind us of a crucial truth: Progress doesn’t always make us stronger. Sometimes it makes us softer in the wrong ways.

23/11/2025

This is not an exaggeration

CW/TW: Sensitive content. This film features real stories about body appearance that may be upsetting to some viewers.8 in 10 youth mental health specialists...

22/11/2025

Do this together!

Most apps default to “public”, meaning your child’s photos, school logo, or location can be visible to strangers in seconds. ⚠️

A five-minute privacy check today can prevent years of problems tomorrow. Here’s a simple starting point:
🔒 Set all profiles to private
📍 Turn off location sharing
👥 Review friend lists together
🗓 Repeat every few months—updates can change settings

Don’t assume your child understands how these features work—they often don’t. Make it a team task: “Let’s check your privacy together.”

Online safety isn’t about fear—it’s about empowerment. 💡 Protect privacy, protect peace.