26/11/2025
A very beautiful morning to everyone following π₯°π₯°π₯°. as we go about our day here is something to meditate on β€οΈβπ₯β€οΈβπ₯β€οΈβπ₯β€οΈβπ₯β€οΈβπ₯β€οΈβπ₯
BEFORE SAYING "I DO" FOR MEN.
10 Godly Things You Must Know and Do Before Saying "I DO" to the Woman of Your Dreams.
Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions a man can make. Before saying "I DO" to the woman of your dreams, itβs essential to align your heart, faith, and actions with Godβs wisdom.
1. Know Yourself Spiritually and Emotionally
Before committing to someone else, make sure you understand your own heart, values, and faith. A strong foundation in Christ will guide your decisions and prevent you from settling for a relationship that conflicts with Godβs plan.
Spend time in prayer, Bible study, and reflection. Identify your strengths, weaknesses, and areas where God wants you to grow.
2. Seek Godβs Guidance
Marriage is a spiritual covenant, not just a human contract. Rely on Godβs wisdom to discern whether this is the right woman for you.
Pray earnestly, fast if needed, and ask for Godβs confirmation through scripture, counsel, and peace in your heart.
3. Evaluate Her Character, Not Just Her Beauty
Physical attraction fades, but godly character lasts. Look for virtues like kindness, integrity, patience, and a Christ-centered life.
Observe how she treats others, handles challenges, and lives out her faith daily.
4. Understand Her Values and Life Goals
Compatibility matters. Ensure your spiritual, moral, and life goals align. Conflicting values can lead to challenges down the road.
Have honest conversations about faith, family, finances, and long-term vision.
5. Be Financially Responsible and Emotionally Ready
Marriage requires maturity, stability, and responsibility. Rushing in without preparation can strain the relationship.
Build personal discipline, save wisely, and cultivate emotional resilience.
6. Develop Humility and Servant Leadership
Godly men lead with love, humility, and selflessness. Marriage is a partnership, not a hierarchy.
Practice serving others, listen actively, and learn to put her needs above pride or ego.
7. Ensure Your Motives Are Pure
Your reasons for saying βyesβ should honor God, not selfish desires or societal pressure.
Ask yourself: Am I pursuing her out of love, respect, and a desire to build a God-centered home?
8. Build Trust and Transparent Communication
A lasting relationship requires honesty and openness. Without trust, even love can falter.
Be transparent about your past, expectations, and challenges. Encourage her to do the same.
9. Understand the Commitment Youβre Making
Marriage is a covenant for life. Saying βyesβ is a lifelong promise, not a temporary arrangement.
Reflect on the biblical meaning of marriage (Ephesians 5:25-33) and be ready to honor your vow in good times and bad.
10. Surround Yourself With Godly Counsel
Wise advice helps prevent impulsive mistakes. Those who love you and know Godβs Word can guide you in making the right decision.
Speak to pastors, mentors, and spiritually mature friends. Seek confirmation from those who have your spiritual well-being at heart.
Men, before you say βyes,β pause, pray, and reflect. Make sure your heart, faith, and life are ready for a God-centered marriage.
Comment below: Which of these 10 steps is most challenging for you right now? Letβs encourage each other to prepare wisely.
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