REAL LIFE Issues

11/08/2025

Ladies, please pay attention!

Men typically have two main reasons for being with women: S*X and LOVE. However, when it comes to marriage, most men don’t marry for these reasons. They marry for STABILITY.

What I mean by that is:

A man can love you and still not marry you. He might be with you s*xually for years without proposing. But once he meets someone who brings stability into his life, he will marry her.

By "stability," I mean "Peace of Mind." Men often say, "I love this woman, but I don’t think I can spend my life with her." When men think about marriage, they’re not focused on things like wedding dresses or bridesmaids, like many women are. Instead, they think, “Can this woman create a home with me? Can she take care of our children and me? Will she give me peace and comfort?”

Men seek peace. They avoid women who bring stress into their lives. This is why a man might stay with one woman for years but marry someone else after a shorter time.

For men, it’s not just about s*x or love; it’s about RESPECT, because respect brings STABILITY.

06/08/2025

We keep learning everyday

12/07/2025

If a man does this in a few minutes after touching or kissing him, be happy. He has a strong physical connection with you. He thinks about you.

Mamunayo amava kukoma kumugwila kokha.

In first two rounds a man who has strong feelings for you will have to exhaust what his testicles have produced, he has to cm faster.

That's normal

If a man doesn't cm faster in first two rounds doubt if he has a physical connection with you.

Zitha kutheka he is only lusting you rather than having feelings for you. Don't confuse the two. Lust is based on selfishness while feelings base on mutual pleasure.

Expect a man who claims to have feelings for you to last longer in his third round. Some do it in their second. If a man is weak in his third round then something is not right.

Judge a man in his third round

"Mind you I am the life coach. I can write anything I want to about life"

28/01/2025

Not for children Under 18 years 🥹

A true friend is like a p*nis, he stands up for you in times of need. A genuine friend is like a bra, she supports you at all times. A faithful friend is like a condom , he protects you from all harm. A loving friend is like a va**na, she accomodates you fully despite the size of your problem.

1. Ka*****ra says : If you suck one ni**le, the woman herself offers the other one. And that was the origin of "buy one get one free"!

2. Did you ever notice: everything on a woman's upper body starts with a "B". Blouse, Bra, Bikini, B***s & lower body with a "P" Peticoat, panties, ... That's origin of "BP"!

3. Before s*x, you help each other get naked. After s*x, you dress only yourself. Moral: In life no one helps you once you're f..ked.

4. Success is like pregnancy. Everybody congratulates you but nobody knows how many times you got fu**ed to achieve it.

5. Life is like a d*ck, sometimes it becomes hard for no reason.

6. Practical thought: A husband is supposed to make his wife's panties wet, not her eyes. A wife is supposed to make her husband's dick hard, not his life..!

When a lady is pregnant, all her friends touch her stomach and say "Congrats!". But none of them come and touch the man's P*nis and say "Well done!".

Moral: Hard work is never appreciated: Only results matter.

16/12/2024

Does lack of s*x has any bad effect in the man's body

27/11/2024

*When a man is gentle, soft and consistently respects a woman, that's when her nervous system starts healing.*

*That's why some women have that special glow when they're being loved right in a relationship.*
*It's not the love itself, it's the emotional safety.*

*KUDOS TO EVERY MAN LOVING HIS WOMAN RIGHTLY*

24/11/2024

I was in choppies this evening, there was a lady who was staring at me as if she has never seen someone tasting coke and putting it back in the fridge.
🤣🤣

24/11/2024

Actually, once you buy a second hand car that had many previous owners who misused it, you will have to accept that you will not be the only driver who will will be driving throughout its life time. Mechanics will drive it most of the time and it will spend most nights at workshops. It will also drain you financially and emotionally.
The worst thing is that, old owners may still cúm to borrow it anytime they may need it.
Again, at times, you will see other drivers flashing lights at you when you are with it because they recognise the car.
⛓😅
Class dismissed 🥂
See you tomorrow

17/11/2024

DO NOT DO THIS DURING SÉX...🍆💦🔥

1. Looking at time when you are having séx gives the other an impression that you are wasting their time!

2. Acting annoyed when the other partner takes long to get an or**sm. Instead help them to reach there if you already have.

3. Having an or**sm first, then not bothering if your partner should have an or**sm or not. That is pure selfishness do something to make them reach there too!

4. Sneezing or coughing on partners face. If you must, look aside no need to splash someone with your saliva!

5. Making reference to a technique an ex used to do great to you, that is unhealthy comparison and will ruin that moment. IF you feel someone is not giving you well as you wish, address them not making references.

6. Faking that you are enjoying séx, making all dramatic movements, dramatic moans etc. until someone can just tell you are faking.

7. Being too silent until someone feels like he is a mortician. At least make some sound when it feels good.

8. Being a passive participant and expecting your partner to do everything to you. Makes someone feel like a doctor operating a half dead patient!

9. Making disapproval faces when not satisfied. You better say it since your partner is not a psychic.

10. Not telling your partner you wish to try something new, then going on to try something so strange in bed. Nothing irritates someone than feeling like an experiment. Seek approval beforehand.

11. Calling out the wrong name when the pleasure is at the peak. That is a total deal breaker.

12. Not kissing. Kissing is so intimate to be ignored.

13. Pushing someone’s head towards your s*xual organs in order to request for oral séx. Oral séx is a sensitive matter and if someone is not feeling like it, do not force them.

14. Rushing through foreplay, this is totally wrong. Heat up the moment to enjoy more.

Love Life Matters

15/11/2024

Don't give up on God, he's still watching over you.

15/11/2024

14/11/2024

Dorcas Mothers Make a Lasting Impact

The SDA Dorcas Mothers of the Chilanga Mission District have once again demonstrated their commitment to community service by constructing a home for 77-year-old widow Edna Mweemba from Namalundu in Kafue. This significant contribution not only addresses immediate housing needs but also creates lasting memories for those involved.

This initiative serves as a powerful reminder of the impact we can have on our communities.

📷 Zambian Footprints