12/10/2025
Chasing The W I N D....
Are you absolutely exhausted from being told to "just be happy"? We all want it, but the harder you try to force it, the more miserable you feel. It's the cruelest trick our minds play, promising a destination you can never reach.
Here is the simple, grounded truth: Happiness is not a place you arrive at. It is not something you catch like a bus. When you stop chasing the wind, you find the solid ground. It’s a gift you receive only after you put in the honest effort.
This quiet satisfaction is the byproduct of three tangible actions:
1 Meaningful Effort (Work): Doing something that helps your family, your community, or simply makes you feel useful. Whether you're in the chitemene, selling tomatoes at the market, or teaching in a class—the true joy is in the useful work.
2 Good Relationships: Staying connected to your people. Sharing burdens and small victories. Community is the strongest shield we have.
3 Personal Growth: Learning, failing, and trying again. Being better today than you were yesterday.
The Conflict
If you are just running after "being happy," you miss the good things happening right now. You are always pushing the satisfaction into the future by saying, "I will be happy later, when I get a promotion... when I get the money..." This desperate chase keeps you perpetually unhappy.
STOP CHASING THE W I N D. Start looking for meaning.
The new question is not: "Am I happy today?"
The new question is: "What good, meaningful thing did I do today?"
When you focus on what you can give rather than what you can get, that inner peace is happiness finding you exactly where you are.