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28/04/2026

post this I really need advise maturely.

I recently started this man and its a long distance relationship. The man is not consistent in communication as he claims to be a busy person,I most initiate talking and the only times he would communicate is around midnight.sometimes even after two days.

He claims so much that he wants to settle but my mind is kind of confused,after a failed relationship I wouldn't wish to go through what I went through.
To the men on the forum, do you somehow do this and truly want a woman or its just an excuse?

Why is it that some men can't set exactly what they want in a relationship than pulling our legs?I have a lot of questions.

23/04/2026

Post for me I need advise please.

How do trust him again . He explained to me about his past life of having more than 1 girlfriend before we started dating and now that he wants to settle he has put everything behind. Some girls would call when we are together and he would tell them he meant what he said that the relationship is done and he has someone now. Fast forward ,he started keeping late nights on messenger which became u comfortable with me and I was hurting ,I asked him to show me his messaged the way he grabbed the phone from me ,I became suspicious and I was hurt, he says there things he wouldn't want me to see which might hurt me .I don't buy that I called it done with him ,he has been pleading assuring me that his not cheating but putting his life in order now that he wants to settle down. To the men in the house help your sister ,do u really need time to put your past life behind? How much time..besides that the guy is good but just that.

23/04/2026

Baby mamas are so childish. When we date them, they introduce us to their kids. The kids become part of us. Then when we call it off. They deny us access to the kids. What do you mean i can’t see Ian because we broke up? Open the gate, i want to see my son right now!

22/04/2026

admin kindly hide my identity.

I'm a married man i love my wife.i care and respect her I don't have intentions of cheating on her and I can't cheat on her no matter what. The problem is that im not always home I do work in different parts of the country. Now my wife is someone who is not interested in romantic conversations no matter how I try to force it on her she doesn't seem interested but we do communicate other issues often but once I try to bring romantic or s*x chatting she doesn't participate ,when I am home she can't touch me unless im the one to touch her.please people help me what could be the reason why she is behaving like this doesn't it mean that she has no feelings for me,we have been married for 2 years.

your honest answers will be highly appreciated

22/04/2026

Good afternoon Lavu Dokta. Please hide my id. I was married to my husband for 8 years before I left him because of being promiscuous and drinking too much. Before I left I tried to help him change but in the process I was losing myself. When I couldn’t handle it I left. I tried to build my life and after some time I met someone else. He was also seeing someone and because we agreed the children be with me but see him as often as possible. The drinking got worse then later improved and I think growth happened that was about 4 or so years of being apart. He stopped drinking and had put his life in order. He is asking me to go back. I see how happy the kids are when we are all together. He is seeing someone and I somehow don’t want to come in between them but I have been thinking about the comments my kids make and feel maybe I should give it another chance. I prayed and fasted for him to change and he is exactly the kind of man I prayed for. Should I or shouldn’t I go back? We still have feelings for each other. Am just not sure how my family will feel. But I would be happy to try for the sake of my kids and myself too.

22/04/2026

Good evening admin kindly hide my identity.
I'm a married man i love my wife.i care and respect her I don't have intentions of cheating on her and I can't cheat on her no matter what. The problem is that im not always home I do work in different parts of the country. Now my wife is someone who is not interested in romantic conversations no matter how I try to force it on her she doesn't seem interested but we do communicate other issues often but once I try to bring romantic or s*x chatting she doesn't participate ,when I am home she can't touch me unless im the one to touch her.please people help me what could be the reason why she is behaving like this doesn't it mean that she has no feelings for me,we have been married for 2 years.your honest answers will be highly appreciated

21/04/2026

I have been married to my husband for the past 5 years, and we have two kids. Even before we got married my husband has been the cheating type.He sleeps with any woman that passes his way.

And I have caught him numerous times, and I forgive him,I even have videos and pictures of his having intimacy with some of his lovers. Because some of them he records and keeps in his phone.

Last week, I caught him sleeping with our maid in our very own house, on our very own matrimonial bed, so I told him I would get revenge, but he thought I was joking .

I immediately contacted a guy who sleeps with ladies for money.I took him to a hotel, and we had s*x for about 40 minutes, and I recorded everything and sent the video to my husband,he nearly died of pain n frustration upon seeing the video.

He is asking me to pack my things and leave his house that the marriage is over. For the past three days, he has been crying that I cheated on him.

His family n friends have been asking him, but he can't explain the reason for his tears.

pls I want to know if I went too far or I did the right thing???

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