03/12/2025
Tonightâs session brought deep reflection and honest conversations about GBV (Gender-Based Violence) and the silent suffering many women experience daily.
1. âWomen talk a lot⊠but not about their pain.â
Mrs. Diana highlighted a powerful truth:
Women often appear expressive, but when it comes to GBV, many stay quiet.
They carry emotional and physical wounds in silence because of fear, shame, or community pressure.
2. How We Turn Red Flags Into âPink Flagsâ
We discussed how many women ignore or soften clear red flags in marriages and relationships.
Instead of calling abuse what it is, we convince ourselves itâs ânot that bad.â
This tendency keeps many trapped in harmful environments.
3. Community Influence and Upbringing
Many women do not speak out because of social conditioning, such as:
âDonât expose family matters.â
âEndure for the sake of your home.â ndozvinoita dzimba đ€
âPeople will judge you.â
Cultural expectations make many feel guilty or ashamed to speak up about GBV.
4. Supporting a Friend Experiencing GBV
A sensitive topic we covered was how to approach a friend who may be experiencing abuse.
You donât confront harshly
ââAre you being beaten every day?â
Instead, you approach with care:
â âIâve noticed some changes⊠Iâm here if you want to talk.â
ââYouâre not alone.â
ââI support you.â
Creating a safe emotional space matters more than interrogation.
5. Breaking the Silence: Reporting & Seeking Help
We ended with a strong message: Silence helps the abuser. Speaking out helps the survivor.
Reporting GBV and seeking help from professionals is a crucial step toward freedom and healing.
6. Self-Care & Professional Support Are Essential
We emphasized the importance of taking care of ourselves, emotionally, mentally, and physically.
Therapists, counselors, psychologists, and support shelters exist to help survivors rebuild their lives.
Final Takeaway
Breaking the silence around GBV is a collective responsibility.
Women deserve safety, dignity, and support, not silence, shame, or fear.
Together, we can build communities where survivors are heard, believed, and empowered.