Beryl Comar

03/12/2024

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29/09/2024

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08/09/2024

My home isn't a place to keep people out. Instead, it is a welcoming place where I accept and offer gratitude for the presence of others.
When we share the joy of our homes, we offer love rather than hide it behind closed doors. The more we do this, the more the outside world can become like the sanctuary we’ve created inside.... We learn about life by connecting with others.
I am preparing my home once more for a friend that I've not seen for many years. Let us enjoy our week together Punam.

25/08/2024

When we feel frustrated with an elderly struggling with tasks that once seemed easy, it's important to remember their own frustration. Each day, they quietly wrestle with technology that confounds them, fading memories, and bodies that no longer work as they used to.

Our patience may wear thin, but it’s important to realize that our frustration is just a fraction of their true struggle. Their challenges are marked by a deep sense of loss and a longing for the simplicity of the past.

Life's roles are ever-changing. Today, we might be the ones offering support, and tomorrow, we are the ones needing it. By treating our elderly with empathy and compassion, we honor their journey and build a bond of mutual respect. This legacy of kindness will ripple through generations, reflecting the enduring strength and grace of the human spirit.

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23/07/2024

Over 60 whales have visited Denia coast so far this year
written by JC Admin July 9, 2024

Dénia coast has become a privileged place to spot fin whales, due partly to the Cabo de San Antonio Marine Reserve, which is a protected area between Dénia and Javea.
Every spring “the whales migrate from Italy’s South Ligurian Sea, and come up every year towards the Atlantic Ocean to feed, looking for colder waters and they draw a straight line to our coast on their journey. The San Antonio and Nao Capes are key points in the navigation of the whales, and can be observed very close to the coasts of Denia and Javea.

After passing through the coast of Dénia, they head to the Atlantic Ocean through the Strait of Gibralta, to head north along the coasts of Portugal to Galicia and the Cantabrian Sea.

03/05/2024

HYPNO CONNECT
Tuesday, May 7th 2024 via Zoom
UK 9am, AU EST 7pm AU WA 5pm
“The Power of Goulding Method of SleepTalk'
Presented by Beryl Comar SLEEP TALK - this is a natural process that takes you only two minutes each night. Doing this builds the brain's firewall which protects and empowers children against daily negative programming e.g.
violence on TV, bad news in tabloids, celebrity influence, bullies, and strangers. The process is about developing a child's emotional intelligence, resilience, the mind's firewall which protects against negative suggestions; much like a firewall on a computer protects it from outside interference and damage.
The Goulding Method is easy to learn, and it can't be "done wrong". It's absolutely safe, ethical and positive. It is for people who are looking for a simple, non-intrusive change process for children that can help parents achieve what they want most - happy confident children and happy families.
hey grow up to be healthy, happy and positive people.
With over 40 years of experience teaching and counselling, Beryl is a Business Communications Trainer, Executive Coach, and Sleep Talk Trainer.
Author of “HypnoDontics: a manual for dentists and hypnotists”. She is a life-long learner who incorporates NLP into all aspects of her work and personal life. If you can't make the live training it will be recorded and sent to you.
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AU approx $ 10, GBP £ 6

19/04/2024

For those looking for HypnoDontics (hypnosis in dentistry ) in Arabic … this is the link
https://www.neelwafurat.com/itempage.aspx?id=aeb434733&search=books

Grateful for your help in spreading the word amongst fellow professional therapists and dentists .
Thanks Beryl

18/04/2024

There is never a one-size-fit- all approach to any dementia care situation.
You may often doubt what you’re doing, what the "best" way is to handle certain situations. Just like parenting, there are lots of different frustrations and options. What I've learned is that the "best" approach is the one that works for your loved one.

So, I pay close attention to how they respond to my actions. If they seem to get upset, fearful or angry it's a sign to do or say something differently. On the other hand, if they seem comfortable with our approach, then it's probably the right one for them.
Remember, caring for someone with dementia isn't about following a strict set of rules. Some may respond well to clear and direct communication, while others may need a softer touch, even some humour, a picture or a sound, a smell.

Do you notice any particular approach that your loved one responds to better? It's okay to experiment and have a go at different methods. And if you ever feel unsure or stuck, don't hesitate to reach out to healthcare providers or dementia specialists, communication experts like me or Claudia, for guidance.
Recognise that every individual is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. Keep observing, keep adapting, and most importantly, keep providing the love and care your loved one needs.

That's why, when you're feeling stuck or unsure on what to do, it can help to consult with a dementia expert to figure out the specific approach for your loved one. And we developed (and continue to develop) approaches like our free guide here.

Our program offers a proactive, insightful approach to caregiving. Join us in fostering a culture of compassion and positivity. Together, we can create meaningful moments that make a lasting impact on the lives of individuals with neurocognitive disorders.

06/04/2024

I’ve had a new look at Ralph Waldo Emerson (1802 – 1882) essay on Self Reliance, and I am relating it to our world in 2024
He says that it’s far better to be misunderstood and be true to oneself than to conform to societal expectations, criticising society for demanding compliance, and societal pressure as deterrents to self-growth and self-discovery. Once again, as in the 1960s I hear young people asking for the same.

Emerson asserted that the virtue of individuality is paramount and that each person should embrace their unique perspective as a path to intellectual and spiritual freedom.

He made a compelling case against societal pressure to conform, arguing that it hinders intellectual growth and authentic self-expression. He attacked institutions (including organized religion and political parties) for promoting conformity at the expense of individuality. And I wonder if, by trying to imitate others, following social media, people these days are killing their own potential and identity.

Emerson challenges those who believe in the safety of convention, believing we should respect and use our instincts and ideas as a compass for our life and work - a perspective that places individual experiences and intuition as the highest authority, even over conventional wisdom or majority rule.

Do you believe in the potential of individual thought, and the innovation that springs from it? If so, what’s stopping you acknowledging and using your innate skills, trusting your perception, rather than leaning unduly on external support or approval?

27/03/2024

I thought this too wonderful to read alone and wanted to share.
Written by 90 year old Regina Brett of Cleveland, Ohio. “To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 42 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short – enjoy it..
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.
9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
11. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
12. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it...
14 Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
15. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
16. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
17. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
18. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
19. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
20. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
21. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.💖
22. The most important s*x organ is the brain.
23. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
24. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
25. Always choose life.
26. Forgive but don’t forget.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
28. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does..
31. Believe in miracles.
32. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
33. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
34. Your children get only one childhood.
35. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
36. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. (I love this one)
37. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
38. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have not what you need.
39. The best is yet to come...
40. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
41. Yield.
42. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

24/03/2024

Would you like to train - as a parent to help your child with issues at home and school, OR as a consultant training parents - I can help... berylcomar@gmail.com

09/03/2024

The Greater Freedom by Alya Mooro .
Read how this Arab girl transformed with help of this hypnotist