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Were you advised to use a warm compress during birth?Using a warm, moist compress on the perineum during the second stag...
12/01/2026

Were you advised to use a warm compress during birth?

Using a warm, moist compress on the perineum during the second stage of labour (the pushing stage) is a simple yet powerful tool that can reduce the risk of severe perineal tearing, specifically third and fourth degree tears.

🔹 Where is it applied?

The compress is applied directly to the perineum—the area between the vaginal opening and the anus—during pushing. It is usually held gently against the area by your midwife as the baby begins to crown.

🔹 How warm should it be?
The temperature should feel comfortably warm to touch, but it should not be hot enough to burn. The cloth is usually soaked in warm water, wrung out, and reapplied as needed.

🔹 What can I use?
Use a clean wash cloth or sanitary pad, run under the warm tap wring it out and apply!

🔹 What does the evidence say?

- A 2017 Cochrane Review and subsequent meta-analysis (Magoga et al., 2019) showed that warm compresses significantly reduce the risk of third- and fourth-degree tears, lowering rates from 5.8% to 1.9%.

- Warm compresses can also increase the chances of an intact perineum, reduce the need for episiotomy, and are associated with less postpartum perineal pain.

- Those who have given birth have reported that warm compresses feel comforting and help them feel more supported and in control during crowning.

So why use it? Well it is a non-invasive, cost-effective, and simple tool making it an excellent option to pop in to your birth plan!

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Are you having a January baby?? I don’t know if the chilled point is true past a few small studies however my brother is...
11/01/2026

Are you having a January baby??

I don’t know if the chilled point is true past a few small studies however my brother is a January baby and is practically horizontal he’s that chilled… my best friend however is like the Tasmanian Devil 🤷🏼‍♀️

horoscopes Aquarius pisces january

10/01/2026

Nothing to see here…. Just a stunning version of women being warriors and smashing life 💪🏼

this is UNREAL especially since putting your shoes on during pregnancy is exhausting never mind belting out a song 💁🏼‍♀️

I love to see and to share women who have been in the fertility trenches and are really transparent with their journey and especially love seeing them thrive as they continue their journey 🤍

I recorded this reel literally the day after the awards and my social media fatigue appeared before I had time to post so I know I’m a bit behind BUT we should be continuously celebrating strong women everywhere at any and every part of their journey whatever that may look like!

It’s 10 days in to 2026 and it seems like the whole world is going to 💩 so here is a shining bit of hope!

Respiratory syncytial virus, or RSV, is a common respiratory virus that infects the nose, throat, and lungs. RSV symptom...
29/12/2025

Respiratory syncytial virus, or RSV, is a common respiratory virus that infects the nose, throat, and lungs.

RSV symptoms make it difficult to distinguish it from the common cold or other respiratory viruses (like the flu or COVID-19).

RSV spreads in the autumn and winter along with other respiratory viruses. It usually peaks in December and January.

Use these 4 simple precautions to protect you and your littles!

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How much weight did you gain in pregnancy? Was it something you were worried about?⁣Weight gain in pregnancy is both nor...
28/12/2025

How much weight did you gain in pregnancy? Was it something you were worried about?

Weight gain in pregnancy is both normal and unavoidable. Read that again!! ⁣
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If you think that you are the only woman to fasten her jeans with a hair bobble or to cry on your bedroom floor because nothing fits anymore, then think again. ⁣⁣
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I think we need to be really pragmatic when it comes to weight gain in pregnancy, because whilst it is normal it is not an excuse to ‘Eat for 2’…. In fact energy needs do not change in the first 6 months of pregnancy and increase only slightly in the last 3 months (and then only by around 200/300 calories per day). ⁣⁣
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There are many factors that affect the weight you gain during pregnancy: ⁣⁣

🔸Pre-pregnancy weight⁣

🔸Nutrition⁣

🔸Physical activity⁣⁣

🔸Medical/Obstetric conditions ⁣⁣
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We also need to remember that this weight gain is not exclusively fat gain as we can see above, there is a lot going on. ⁣

Did you know your circulating volume (fluid/blood) increases by nearly 50%….. all these factors contribute to weight gain.
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Unfortunately there is no recognised ‘normal’ value for weight gain in pregnancy, but these are “ball park” figures! Don’t worry if you don’t fit these parameters. ⁣

I still get messages from women explaining that their doctor has told them to “eat less to make a small baby” or that “they should not be putting on more than 10-15lbs” 😡😡 (FYI this is terrible advice generally speaking).

Always bear in mind that excessive weight loss or weight gain in pregnancy can cause complications and as such should be discussed with your Midwife or Doctor to tailor an individual care plan for you. ⁣⁣
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⁣ pregnancy postnatal

25/12/2025

Gifts for the newborn are good. Gifts of support and acts of service for the mother are better!

Don’t be like the “wise men”.

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate 🎄 Have a joyful day full of all the things that make you happy!
25/12/2025

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate 🎄

Have a joyful day full of all the things that make you happy!

Merry Christmas Eve 🎄🎁⁣ Swipe for my Night before Christmas Midwifery Edition⁣It’s time for my Christmas Midwifery poem ...
24/12/2025

Merry Christmas Eve 🎄🎁⁣ Swipe for my Night before Christmas Midwifery Edition

It’s time for my Christmas Midwifery poem to make its appearance, with a few tweaks!

Spare a thought for all those healthcare workers who give up Christmas with their families to support you and yours.

Happy Holidays All ❤️⁣

24/12/2025

I mean…. These are three of the best ways to approach your labour and birth.

Even with intervention we don’t have to remain inactive, strapped to beds and machines on our back. Hell we even have mobile epidurals these days.

Move like Mary (disclaimer: I’m not advocating you get a donkey 🤣)

Amazing artwork is from do go check her page out! It’s unreal 😍

Are you worried about your baby being too cold at night? Whether it is winter where you are or simply summer and you are...
08/12/2025

Are you worried about your baby being too cold at night? Whether it is winter where you are or simply summer and you are super relient on air conditioning?

Here are 5 signs your baby is too cold.

Remember if this is the case your baby will usually tell you by crying and being unsettled.

Touching their hands, face, feet are not reliable indicators of temperature - so know these signs.

And the single best way to warm up and settle your baby if you suspect them of being too cold is to get them in skin to skin with mum or dad and they’ll be toasty in no time!

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Who is having/has had December babies??
06/12/2025

Who is having/has had December babies??

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About The Fit Midwife....

Hi all, I’m Nikki.... I am a UK trained midwife living and working in Dubai. I have been here since 2016 and faced so many challenges in healthcare, as a woman and as a practitioner in my own right. These challenges gave rise to my blog ‘The Fit Midwife’.

It combines the two things that take up all of my time. Maternity care and fitness. And throughout all of the issues I cover I continuously reinforce informed choice, birth rights and the female voice!

I am a qualified level 3 PT and like to incorporate this in to my maternity work because fitness saved me in so many ways and has led me down a path in my life that, although not easy, is definitely the right one. I am a firm advocate that healthy women have healthy pregnancies and subsequently have healthy babies.

I have a no nonsense approach to maternity care. I do not sugar coat things and I do not hold back on saying what it is I really think on the lack of rights, choice and information in maternity care, especially in the UAE. I aim to educate and give women the tools to ask the questions and challenge what does not feel right when it comes to their care. To encourage them to empower themselves.