14/01/2026
Many couples in neurodiverse relationships feel torn between staying together or separating. The non-ADHD partner may feel exhausted by repeated slips, while the ADHD partner can feel attacked by constant complaints. Over time, this dynamic can create deep emotional wounds.
The key to change lies in shifting perspective. ADHD is like being left-handed in a world built for right-handed people. When couples adapt the “tools” they use to communicate and live together, they create space for compassion and consideration rather than frustration and blame.