15/01/2026
Healthy intimacy is not built by how much you reveal but rather by how you show up over time. ✨
When vulnerability moves faster than trust, the nervous system may register connection before the relationship has established safety. This can create a sense of closeness that feels real in the moment, yet lacks the foundation needed to sustain it.
Over time, this gap often shows up as confusion, misattunement, or a quiet strain that is hard to name. Not because anyone did something wrong, but because intimacy was assumed rather than built.
Healthy intimacy develops through consistency, mutual pacing, and emotional safety over time. It grows when both people feel regulated enough to stay present, set boundaries, and return after moments of rupture.
This is not about sharing less. It is about sharing wisely, in relationships that can hold what is offered.