
06/09/2025
Happy Father's Day (Australia)!!
To all of the dads and those who identify with the father role, I wish you a wonderful day.
Did you know that you do not need to feed your baby to bond with your baby?
Amazingly, 1 hour of skin-to-skin is enough to wire the non-lactating parent brain for bonding.
This helps the non-birth parent to work out what baby needs more quickly and helps to work out how to calm baby better for an easier parenting experience!
Baby wearing is a wonderful way for the non-lactating parent to settle baby.
Ensure the carrier is properly and safely fitted for comfort and effectiveness. (see the TICKS guidelines).
A nice bath together with your baby can help to re-connect at the end of the day (after work) before baby goes to bed.
All of these activities support bonding and connection. Not having the 'breasts' to calm and nurture baby can feel frustrating and helpless sometimes. When the lactating parent becomes the default parent, the non-lactating parent may feel left out and disconnected.
Try to take the focus off the task of feeding and think about all the wonderful things you CAN do as the parent without the milk supply. In doing so, you are supporting your partner, building your parenting confidence and setting the foundation for the long-term relationship with your child.
Happy Father's Day xx