15/05/2026
If I had a dollar for every woman who told me she feels guilty resting, I’d probably be retired right now.
It’s something I see so often in high-achieving women.
Many have learnt to tie their worth to productivity, being helpful, staying on top of things, or constantly doing.
So when they finally stop, slow down, or sit down to rest… guilt shows up almost immediately.
Their mind starts telling them:
“I should be doing something”
“I haven’t earned this yet”
“There’s still more to do”
The goal is not necessarily to never feel guilty resting.
Sometimes it’s about learning to feel the guilt… while also connecting to the deeper, wiser part of you that knows rest is necessary.
Because without rest, it becomes very difficult to keep showing up for everyone else, let alone yourself.
You cannot keep running on empty indefinitely.
Sometimes the work is:
Feel the guilt, and take the rest anyway.
Adelaide Psychologist | Online Telehealth Therapy