19/06/2025
⚠️ If you don’t know your core values, you’ll say “yes” to the wrong things - and wonder why you’re exhausted.
Ever feel like you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, overcommitting, or people-pleasing until you’re completely drained?
That might be because you’re not living in alignment with your values - or you’re not clear what they even are.
Here’s how to change that 👇
🧭 Step 1: Understand what values actually are
Values aren’t just nice words like “kindness” or “respect.”
They’re your personal compass - the deep, guiding principles that help you feel grounded, whole, and true to yourself.
Here are some examples:
✨ Freedom, honesty, stability, adventure
✨ Growth, creativity, connection, peace
✨ Play, loyalty, courage, beauty
✨ Justice, flexibility, faith, simplicity
You don’t need them all - you just need the ones that feel like home.
✍️ Step 2: Reflect with these journal prompts:
– When do I feel most proud of who I am?
– What makes me feel out of alignment or fake?
– What do I need in order to thrive - not just survive?
🔍 Step 3: Notice the patterns
Are you craving more independence?
Structure?
Authenticity?
What do your answers reveal about what you truly value?
Pick your top 3–5 - the ones that feel less like pressure, more like truth.
✨ When you name your values, your decisions stop being so hard.
You stop outsourcing your worth.
And you finally start living in a way that feels right for you.
🔖 Save this for your next journaling session
💬 Share with a friend who’s in a season of self-doubt
📩 Link in my bio if if you want my help to explore this in a deeper, guided way