
08/04/2025
One of the questions I pose to clients is ‘what do you want to experience from s*x’… ‘what drives you to want to have s*x with another?’ …. If we take or***ms out of the equation… cos you can do that on your own… and sometimes better…’what is it you are looking for when engaging with another in this realm?’…. And the answer most often is connection, wanting to feel deeply connected, wanting to feel that I matter, that I’m desired… When we focus just on or***ms… we can miss the delicious pleasure of presence… which is where true intimacy begins.
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