10/01/2024
Being an educator myself I know the job is incredibly taxing and the expectations are high. However, we need to be mindful of how we are supporting some of our more vulnerable students.
Every child deserves an education, but not every child has an opportunity to receive an education. It is important that we break free from the stereotypes and old school views of “naughtiness, disruptiveness, rudeness” and look closer at what the children are trying to tell us.
The most important thing for our vulnerable students is relationship and trust. They need to know that you care. Many of these children have endured school trauma in many different shapes and forms. They need to know that you care, and you understand how it feels for them to be in their shoes. Every child is capable of learning, and does innately want to learn, but their learning style preferences may differ. They may be situationally mute - so verbal presentations in front of a class may cause a fight or flight response, so how else could they achieve the curriculum outcomes - does it have to be an oral? Do they have low tone, is handwriting an absolute necessity or could they type?
Once we establish these two bases we can look at creating and maintaining a safe learning space. Somewhere that isn’t distressing to their overwhelmed sensory systems. Is it alternative seating, is it allowing them to wear headphones or a hat in class (to shield the sound/lighting).
Establish a sensory diet that works for them - know that it’s essential to give regular breaks, and not just the “I think you need a break”. Regular breaks will help their nervous system maintain a regulated state.
Only then, when all this is addressed and laid down first can we actually expect and engage in learning. No child is going to be able to learn when their nervous system is overwhelmed and dsyregulated. Demanding their focus and attention is only going to further traumatize and add to the struggles rather than taking the time and care to establish solid foundations.
After all, EVERY child DESERVES an EDUCATION, that is right for them.