Lyn Torbarina Clinical Hypnotherapy

18/07/2025

09/07/2025

30/06/2025

The love language we don't talk about.

It's the quiet act of someone choosing to work on themselves.

Not just for their own sake, but for the health of the relationship.

It’s easy to say “That’s just how I am,” and expect others to accept our flaws and triggers as unchangeable parts of us.

But real love ..... deep, mature love, looks different.

It’s someone who recognizes their wounds and patterns, and instead of making them your burden, takes responsibility for their healing.

It’s the partner who notices when their words cut too deep, or when old habits threaten new happiness, and chooses to do the work to grow.

You deserve someone who doesn’t expect you to simply tolerate the parts of them that hurt you.

You deserve someone who sees the impact of their actions and is willing to change, not because you demand it, but because they care about your peace, your safety, and your heart.

Love isn’t just about grand gestures or sweet words.

Sometimes, it’s about accountability.

It’s about someone who looks at their own reflection and says, “I want to be better for me, for you, for us.”

That’s the kind of love that builds trust, deepens connection, and heals old wounds.

Always remember .... you are worthy of a love that grows.

Of a partner who chooses healing over excuses, effort over complacency.

Don’t settle for less than someone who’s willing to do the work, because that’s a love language that will last a lifetime.

~ Cody Bret

26/06/2025

11/03/2025

23/02/2025

Society is obsessed with milestones. We celebrate first steps, first words, first awards. We compare grades, test scores, and job titles. But what if we measured success differently? What if, instead of focusing on when a child walks or how well they do on an exam, we focused on their kindness? Their ability to listen? Their capacity to love?

Psychologists have long studied the impact of early childhood experiences, and the findings are clear: the environment a child grows up in shapes their entire life. Not just in terms of intelligence, but in emotional regulation, resilience, and self-worth. A child who feels safe, loved, and valued will grow into an adult who knows their worth. They may not always have the highest test scores, but they will know how to treat people. They will know how to be a good friend, a thoughtful partner, a compassionate leader. And isn’t that the kind of success that truly matters?

Next time you see a child, ask yourself: What do they need most? A perfect report card, or the unwavering knowledge that they are loved? Because in the end, love is the lesson that matters most. ❤️