31/05/2021
A post I read today in a gaming addiction group/forum. For modern day children, the world can seem overwhelming (even more so during a lockdown) and gaming provides a sense of clarity and direction. I appreciated this post as it flips the narrative of fear into adventure:
“I learned later in my life that a big part of my video game addiction was due to a fear of creating a life for myself, a life where my future was completely devoid of any clarity.
I was born an only child to a single mom who struggled with drug and alcohol addiction. I grew up in poverty and moved out at the age of 14.
I got a job washing dishes and rented a bedroom out in the country. This is a big part of how my video game addiction began.
Today, as I look back, I can clearly see how I created a destructive "comfort zone" for myself. A comfort zone that looked a lot like the life my mom had created for herself because it was familiar to me.
And because it was familiar to me, my addiction to gaming grew, because video games gave me clear directions, clear instructions, incentives, rewards, a sense of being part of a growing global community, a sense of accomplishment.
The real world didn't give a damn about me and could not compete with my digital worlds.
If anyone can relate to my story, I want you to know that you don't have to continue living this life. I've come to learn that the real world has more to offer you than you can ever imagine.
I used to fear the unknown, which I no longer do.
Life is incredibly exciting and rewarding, so trust me when I say you have nothing to fear because the only thing that your fear is "protecting" you from is learning new things.
If you are trying to quit gaming, try not to think like your leaving something behind, rather, think like your starting a new adventure.
A new adventure where you are the hero, and you get to make the rules.
Are you gaming out of fear? Let me know below and we can talk about it together.”