07/07/2025
You Are Not Crazy, Difficult, or WeakâYou Might Be in Perimenopause đ
Do you sometimes feel like your body, mind, and emotions are just not âyouâ anymore? Youâre not alone. Whether youâre in perimenopause, menopause, or even surgical/forced menopause, the truth is this: you are not broken.
Many of us go through these changes without even realizing that our symptoms are hormonally driven. Weâre told to push through, that âitâs part of getting older,â or worse, that âitâs all in our head.â
But guess what? You are not crazy, difficult, or weak. You are changing, hormonally, physiologically, emotionallyâand there is help, support, and most importantly, understanding.
As women, we will all go through this cycle one way or another. And recognizing that youâre not alone can be the first powerful step toward feeling well again.
Hereâs a comprehensive list of what perimenopause can look and feel like: đ
⢠Irregular periods (shorter, longer, heavier, or lighter)
⢠Skipped periods
⢠Shorter or longer cycles
⢠Premenstrual symptoms worsening (PMS)
⢠Mid-cycle spotting
⢠Hot flashes
⢠Night sweats
⢠Flushing
⢠Chills or feeling suddenly cold
⢠Difficulty falling asleep
⢠Frequent waking during the night
⢠Early morning awakening
⢠Insomnia
⢠Irritability
⢠Mood swings
⢠Anxiety or nervousness
⢠Depression or low mood
⢠Crying spells
⢠Panic attacks
⢠Brain fog
⢠Difficulty concentrating
⢠Memory lapses or forgetfulness
⢠Word-finding difficulty
⢠Fatigue (even after rest)
⢠Joint pain or stiffness
⢠Muscle aches
⢠Headaches or migraines (often worsened)
⢠Weight gain (especially around the abdomen)
⢠Bloating
⢠Breast tenderness
⢠Heart palpitations
⢠Dizziness or lightheadedness
⢠Dry or itchy skin
⢠Acne or breakouts (similar to puberty)
⢠Thinning hair or increased hair shedding
⢠Increased facial hair
⢠Brittle nails
⢠Vaginal dryness
⢠Pain during s*x
⢠Reduced libido
⢠Urinary frequency or urgency
⢠Increased risk of urinary tract infections (UTIs)
⢠Gum sensitivity or bleeding
⢠Changes in body odor
⢠Increased sensitivity to temperature
⢠Sensation of electric shocks
⢠Tingling extremities
⢠Allergies worsening or new allergies
⢠Digestive changes (bloating, reflux)
Every symptom listed above is real. You donât need to suffer in silence or second-guess yourself. There are optionsâholistic, medical, lifestyle-basedâthat can support you through this transition.
As a nurse practitioner, Iâm here to tell you: you are not alone, and you are not imagining it. If youâre experiencing any of these symptoms and want to better understand your body, Iâd love to help you through your journey.
Letâs break the stigma, talk openly, and support one another. Because being informed is empoweringâand you deserve to feel like yourself again.
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