29/12/2025
The moments that defined my 2025
2025 wasnât shaped by one big event. It was shaped by a series of moments â some beautiful, some devastating â all deeply rooted in love.
Barney was my comfort, my rock, my everything. Losing him was one of the hardest things Iâve ever experienced. Three weeks after he died, on the anniversary of his adoption, a car pulled in front of me a little too closely. The number plate said Barney. I knew he was still looking out for me.
Around the same time, Tiny Chefâs TV show was cancelled. His video sharing his grief went viral and helped me more than I can explain. Since then, his presence has brought unexpected joy â and some beautiful bonding time with my niece and nephews.
A tear in my MCL took five months to heal. Grief, stress, and pushing through didnât help. But the injury taught me something important: my ageing body needs care, patience, and tenderness â not force.
I was incredibly lucky to be able to stay with my mum when I was homeless for a while this year. Having a safe place to cry, grieve, and occasionally let someone else cook dinner made more difference than I can say.
I cancelled more yoga classes than I would have liked this year â grief, injury, and a lost voice all got in the way. But teaching still brought me back to myself. Almost every time I showed up, I felt better afterwards. My students have been endlessly kind and supportive, and Iâm so grateful for them.
A wonderful yoga student offered me her rental property, and for the first time in years all my belongings were in one place. Many had been in storage for five years. As I unpacked, I realised Iâm not the same person who packed those boxes. Grief has changed me â but I also feel more me than ever.
This was also the year I discovered Iâm a crier. Letting the tears come has been an important part of my healing. I like being a crier.
Everything I experienced this year has been wrapped in love â the grief, the support, the tenderness. I even found unexpected inspiration in Heated Rivalry. The softness, hope, and authenticity in that story is something I want to carry with me into 2026.
If you feel like sharing, what were the moments that shaped your 2025?