21/12/2025
The Christmas season can be beautiful, but it can also be a lot. With all the extra activity, crowds, expectations and emotions, it’s no surprise that many of us drift outside our window of tolerance.
For some people, it only takes a small trigger to move into hyperarousal (snapping, overwhelm, irritability).
For others, it shows up as hypoarousal (shutting down, withdrawing, feeling detached).
What helps us stay regulated is deeply personal. Some people need quiet, space and time. Others need connection, a grounding touch, a warm drink, or a big comforting hug.
The trick isn’t to judge the response...it’s to understand what brings you (or someone you love) gently back into balance.
💬 What helps you stay within your window of tolerance?
💬 And what helps you return when you’ve slipped out?