07/11/2023
It takes BALLS to be kind
It takes more strength to be kind than it ever will to raise a fist
Kindness means instead of judging, blaming, accusing others for the way you feel you take ownership and get curious about what is going on with in you
Kindness is shining a light on the wounds others may have triggered within you and instead of reacting to the person, you are THANKFUL now you are aware of the wound you can heal it
It takes a hero who is willing to shine light onto their shadows to be kind
Kindness is having the strength to have so much self love that boundaries are apart of the standard for how you treat yourself
Kindness is knowing that you are imperfect just like every other human, when you cross your own boundary you lovingly guide yourself back
Kindness is having grace for your own mistakes as well as others
If others cross your boundary you have the strength to hold your boundary AND love at the same time
Powerful boundaries are a strong, soft bubble that has give and grace but it can not be penetrated
Boundaries are not a brick wall to smash up against, if you set them from this place you will find many people who want to smash that wall down
Your wall will either crumble
OR
You'll feel like you have to build a bigger wall, get angrier, get tougher
Agression towards others is a protection mechanism set in place to protect yourself from facing your shadows within
Facing your shadows leads you to your light
When you heal you move out of 'being nice', trying to please everyone, being nice will twist you into a pretzel until you can't be 'nice' anymore and you explode
And into to being KIND, first to yourself and then to the world
Kindness is a way of peace, courage, resilience, it takes far more bravery than inflicting your wounds on to others
Kind people use their energy to create beauty instead of tearing others down
Kind people with a vision will change this fu***ng world
This is why I have created our community 'The Visionaries'
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Where your kindness is seen as strength
Where vulnerability is courage
Where we change the world