22/04/2026
1 in 6
1 in 7
1 in 100
Infertility
Endometriosis
Ectopic Pregnancy.
All statistics I am part of. All challenges, that I did not bring on myself, but challenges that still needed to be overcome.
Through the whirling world which is IVF and the team at on my side, I (really we) came out the otherside.
We were one of the lucky ones, we ended with the desired outcome, just as we had imagined, but also with many more twists and turns than we ever expected, or that we had been taught could occur.
But that's not everyone's story of infertility, not everyone ends with the imagined family, infact many people dont.
It's my statistics, my experiences, my healed wounds that have brought me to where I am today, and in this case im talking about me as the Reproductive Psychologist. Never as someone starting out in psychology over 20 years ago would I thought this is where I would be. Buts that post traumatic growth for you - it takes you down pathways you can never imagine.
Wherever you are in your road of infertility, know that wherever it ends it will all be ok, wherever it ends there will be joy, wherever it ends there will be lightness.
But wherever it ends, there will also be some grief, for the complications, the challenges and the twists and turns we had to navigate to get to that end.
And that's ok, two things can be true at once, two emotions can be present, life is not binary, its not black and white.
Irrespective of where you are today, know there is someone who is a step in front of you, somewhere in this world.