03/03/2026
Over the past few weeks, Barb Cook (Registered Developmental Educator) has been in conversation with many teachers about behaviour that “doesn’t quite make sense.”
Students who shut down after small corrections.
Students who refuse when pressure increases.
Students who seem capable, but unravel when feedback is involved.
Following the recent PDA & School webinar, one theme became very clear: when we shift from a compliance lens to a regulation lens, classroom dynamics change.
This new blog post explores where PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance | Persistent Drive for Autonomy) and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) intersect in school settings — and why what can appear as defiance or oversensitivity is often distress, shame, or autonomy protection.
For educators, school leaders, and allied health professionals, this is an important piece to reflect on.
If the section on rejection sensitivity resonates, Barb will be exploring this in much more depth in the upcoming RSD & School live webinar.
Early bird pricing has been extended and ends Wednesday 11 March.
Early bird: $58. Full price: $68
âś” 2 hours CPD
âś” Certificate of completion
âś” 60 days access to the recording
If you’ve ever wondered why one small comment can completely derail an otherwise capable student, this session provides practical, regulation-informed insight into what is happening beneath the surface.
Links to the full blog article and the upcoming RSD & School webinar are in the comments below.
By Barb Cook, M.Aut (Ed.).,Dip.HSc (Nut.). Registered Developmental Educator | Integrative Nutritionist | Adult ADHD Coach | Accredited Athletics Coach In school settings, certain words surface again and again. Defiant. Oppositional. Too sensitive. Overreacting. Unmotivated. Capable but won’t. Ove...