23/10/2025
Ever stare at your to-do list and feel your chest tighten — like your brain can’t even decide where to begin?
That’s not laziness. It’s your brain doing what it thinks will keep you safe.
When an ADHD brain sees too much, your nervous system interprets it as threat.
Cortisol rises, dopamine drops, and suddenly you’re in freeze mode.
The part of your brain that plans and prioritises (the prefrontal cortex) goes offline, while the emotional centre (the amygdala) takes charge.
It’s not that you don’t want to do it.
It’s that your brain is flooded — overwhelmed by too many open loops.
💡 What helps:
• Shrink the task until it feels doable. If “write the report” feels impossible, start with “open the document.”
• Add dopamine before you begin. Music, movement, sunlight, even a short timer — give your brain a cue that says “safe to start.”
• Celebrate small momentum. Finishing one micro-step releases dopamine and helps your brain want to keep going.
You don’t need to push harder — you need to start smaller.
And the moment you do, that fog of “I can’t” starts to lift.
Save this for the next time your list feels like a wall instead of a doorway. 💛