21/11/2025
Why is it so hard to deal with conflict?
Most of us (especially empaths) avoid it at all costs.
Why?
💥 We believe our needs are not important
💥 We have a fear of not being liked
💥 It threatens our good-girl (or boy) persona
💥 If we let out a little bit of frustration, our suppressed anger may explode (and it’s too scary)
These are just a few reasons why we don’t feel safe, or trust ourselves, in the fires of conflict.
BUT…
In any relationship, conflict is inevitable.
Without conflict we would not know the value of harmony.
Without conflict we don’t grow.
So how do we engage with conflict?
🩷 Listening.
🩷 Recognising and manging our triggers.
🩷 Curiosity. Using the power of questions to understand the other person’s perspective.
🩷 Self-honesty.
🩷 Vulnerability. Owning our feelings - they matter.
What are your tips?
Love,
Marion
Xx
Marion Hutton
Transformation Coach
Neuro Transformation Therapy
Evolutionary Astrology and Human Design
www.themarionhutton.com
Photo credit: Marion Hutton (2025)