04/05/2026
There’s the visible work… and then there’s the invisible weight.
Remembering the appointments, noticing what’s running low, thinking three steps ahead. Holding everyone’s needs in your mind at once.
The mental load isn’t just what gets done, it’s what gets held.
And when one person carries most of that load, it doesn’t just lead to exhaustion. It can quietly create resentment, disconnection, and imbalance in a relationship.
Because it’s not only about tasks. It’s about feeling considered.
💬 Where do you feel this most in your relationship?