Hills Relationship Centre

06/09/2025

💙 Happy Father’s Day 💙

Today we celebrate the dads who show up, love wholeheartedly, support their families, and stay present through both the ordinary days and the big milestones. Your presence makes an immeasurable difference.

We also want to gently acknowledge those for whom this day may feel tender — whether you’re grieving a father who has passed, carrying pain from a difficult relationship, or navigating absence. Our hearts are with you too. 💛

Wherever this day finds you, may you feel seen, supported, and held in kindness.

06/09/2025

Fighting fair isn’t about winning — it’s about strengthening your relationship.
Swipe through for 5 practical ways to fight fair with your partner.

Want to go deeper? Explore our Resource Library for the full article plus more evidence-based tools to support connection and healthy communication. The link is in our bio

26/08/2025

Ever feel on edge, snappy, or like your brain’s running 10 tabs too many? These could be signs your nervous system’s asking for a breather. Stress doesn’t always shout — sometimes it whispers. Start listening. 🌿

25/08/2025

Here are some common signs of healthy vs. unhealthy relationship dynamics.

We’ve also included reflection questions in this post to help you pause, notice, and reflect on how these dynamics might be showing up in your own relationship.

And if you’re noticing some unhealthy patterns—or simply want to strengthen the healthy ones—our counsellors are here to support you in creating a more connected and fulfilling relationship.

21/08/2025

Need support between sessions? Our Resource Library is full of bite-sized articles and resources to help you navigate relationships, stress, parenting, and more—on your time, at your pace. Dive in and find your next step!

Practical tools, helpful insights, and gentle support — every step of the way.

21/08/2025

Tired of overthinking every decision? 🧠
It’s time to trust your judgment and move forward with confidence.
👉 Read how here:

Why Overthinking Holds Us BackOverthinking is often an attempt to protect ourselves from mistakes. But more often, it leaves us stuck in analysis, doubt, and self-criticism. We replay conversations, agonise over whether we said the right thing, or hesitate so long that opportunities pass us by.The t...

03/06/2025

🌀 Feeling overwhelmed? Your nervous system might be asking for care.

When we’re anxious, stressed, or stuck in conflict, our body shifts into survival mode. Calming your nervous system isn’t just about feeling better in the moment — it’s about creating space for clarity, connection, and healing.

Here are some gentle ways to regulate:
🌬️ Slow, deep breaths
🌿 Time in nature or sunlight
💧 Sip water mindfully
🤲 Gentle movement (a walk, stretch, or sway)
💖 Self-soothing touch – hand on heart or hugging a pillow
🧘 Grounding techniques – notice 5 things you can see, hear, or feel
🧊 Cold exposure – a splash of cold water, a swim, or cool breeze to reset your system

These simple tools can bring you back to yourself — especially when life feels loud.

📥 Save this for when you need a circuit-breaker.
💬 What helps you reset when you’re overwhelmed?

29/05/2025

Little things make a big difference! Here are 3 simple ways to strengthen your relationship this week:
🗨️ Compliment your partner
🧑‍🤝‍🧑Plan some quality time together
💌 End each day by sharing one thing you appreciate about them

Want tips and tools to strengthen your relationship? Visit the link in our bio today.

28/05/2025

Ever feel on edge, snappy, or like your brain’s running 10 tabs too many? These could be signs your nervous system’s asking for a breather. Stress doesn’t always shout — sometimes it whispers. Start listening. 🌿

19/04/2025

To our beautiful clients who celebrate, we wish you a safe and happy Easter weekend 🐣

We will reopen on Tuesday 22nd April and appreciate your patience as we respond to the enquiries we received over the break.

Please remember, if you need urgent or crisis support these holidays, visit the link our bio for a list of 24 hour support services.

26/03/2025

In our latest blog post, our counsellor, Mark, offers insight and guidance for parents navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. He shares practical tips on how to set boundaries that ensure safety, demonstrate care, and promote respect. With insights into fostering healthy communication and team parenting, Mark highlights how to balance firmness with understanding. If you're looking to improve your connection with your teen and establish a stable, respectful family dynamic, this blog is a must-read!

Check it out here:
https://wix.to/0Nqd2DY

Author: Mark Burnard | Counsellor at Hills Relationship CentreParents love their kids and the concern for their safety and wellbeing leads us to want to put upsome guardrails and boundaries to keep them safe and happy. However, as they grow it is verynatural for teens especially to test boundaries,....

26/02/2025

Did you know counselling can also be beneficial during and after separation or divorce? The transition from partners to co-parents can be incredibly challenging, so having some additional support to help you navigate can make the world of difference.

Counselling can help you navigate separation, rediscover yourself, and show up as the best parent for your kids. It provides a safe space for parents to explore healthy communication, set boundaries, and develop coping strategies for the emotional challenges of the transition.

But it’s not just about the parents—counselling can also support children through this change. By helping parents understand the emotional needs of their kids, it ensures a more stable, supportive environment for them to process the separation. This can lead to better emotional resilience for the children and reduce potential negative impacts on their wellbeing.

When everyone is supported, it’s easier to create a harmonious environment that benefits the whole family.

Ready to take the next step? You don’t have to do it alone.