10/05/2023
Such a great reminder. I’d got myself into this, the velvet rut. Not wanting to over challenge myself. Having a bit of comfort. But new challenges make us feel so alive, learning stops us from only seeing things from a point of contraction and able to look from different perspectives. Making the self effort to cook new and different meals. Ensuring to look for the similarities in others & not just the differences. For me to be honest is making the effort to place posts on social media! Maybe that needs to be my challenge to myself & for hopefully your benefit. I’ve believed for many years living isn’t just about breathing in and out. So how do you challenge yourself today.
“It’s very easy to get comfortable. To build up your life exactly how you want it to be. Minimize inconveniences and hand off the stuff you don’t like to do. To find what you enjoy, where you enjoy it, and never leave.
A velvet rut is what it’s called. It’s nice, but the comfort tricks you into thinking that you’re not stuck.
The Stoics knew that this was a kind of death. That as soon as we stop growing, we start dying. Or at least, we become more vulnerable to the swings of Fate and Fortune. Seneca talked over and over again about the importance of adversity, of not only embracing the struggle life throws at us but actively seeking out that difficulty, so you can be stronger and better and more prepared. A person who has never been challenged, he said, who always gets their way, is a tragic figure. They have no idea what they are capable of. They are not even close to fulfilling their potential.
So that leaves you with something to think about today: Are you challenging yourself? Do the choices you make push you or do they help you atrophy? Are you in a velvet rut?
Be honest. And then challenge yourself to do better.”