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Throughline Counselling Master's Accredited Counsellor in-person therapy in Bendigo and online. Helping you find solid ground and understand the deeper cause of psychological pain

Thoughtful reporting about deep psychological pain and the human condition is important.We need thoughtful journalism, e...
10/04/2026

Thoughtful reporting about deep psychological pain and the human condition is important.

We need thoughtful journalism, especially in a time where our grief, sorrow and numbing ourselves with the scrolling of doom inviting us into spirals of fragmentation in opposition to real life and what it means to be a sensing, feeling human in the world.

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Two Region journalists have been honoured for their sensitivity and excellence in reporting mental health issues. Not-for-profit charity SANE launched…

    It is Easter, most families are celebrating and having a good time. However family violence can happen to anyone.The...
04/04/2026



It is Easter, most families are celebrating and having a good time. However family violence can happen to anyone.

There are families where children are scared of raised voices as they are used to picking up on the cues of emotional or physical violence. For those families, Easter comes with conditions and other expectations.

Coercive control is also family violence and it does not discriminate between those who have "means" and those who have not. It doesn't discriminate between those you would expect not getting trapped in the circle of violence and those who does.

If in Australia, call 1800 RESPECT and seek counselling about your situation. Locally in Bendigo, Center for Non-Violence can help.

Coercive control is when someone uses a pattern of abusive behaviours against another person, to take away their freedom and independence, and can sometimes ...

At first glance using AI therapy bots may make you feel better, but seeing a counsellor in person is very different. Thi...
31/03/2026

At first glance using AI therapy bots may make you feel better, but seeing a counsellor in person is very different. This article from Psyche explains why and is rooted in the fact that AI is disembodied from our world. AI only has information about a tiny fraction of what it means to be human.

"While they can imitate the language of therapy and reliably deliver a pastiche of validation, they cannot innovate an embodied response to you – a response born from being changed by what they witness.
Consider the role of silence; while therapists sense what it holds, LLMs are not changed by silence. For them, silence isn’t training data."



https://psyche.co/ideas/why-chatbot-therapists-cant-offer-what-we-need?fbclid=Iwb21leAQ4_CBjbGNrBDjv_GV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHrp7mryzVYT-Reumnxo8v43eE19gVx6WxT8_D5V4fQ8N6DZsXRA3ocnMBd1G_aem_SfnW_d1fFBYgGNqWiLyM3A

Today’s world is fuelling a craving to be truly seen by another – and that’s exactly what AI therapists can’t ever deliver

          There are times where it is hard to slow down on our own.We need other people we need safe connections where o...
27/03/2026



There are times where it is hard to slow down on our own.

We need other people we need safe connections where our stories can be heard and we can be seen as we are, in order to slow down.

Therapy can be that space where you develop the capacity to slow down. Be seen and see yourself and be in connection.

Session after session.
Over time. In your own time come into a different place

If you need some slowing down, then here is a "gift", an evening melody, from one of the poets in our world.

It is an opposition to noise and an invitation to slow down.

Click through and listen to a beautiful poem read by a real human's melodic voice and let yourself be moved.

https://youtu.be/DTL1Cf4A4s8?si=Ep2TzdMZAMCqvURL

Australian poems by Australian poets are at the heart of Red Room Poetry, an organisation devoted to creating, publishing and promoting the reading and writing of great new work.

There is a tendency to look at mental health struggles as neat categories that you can apply specific therapeutic techni...
16/03/2026

There is a tendency to look at mental health struggles as neat categories that you can apply specific therapeutic techniques to or psychotropic medication, with the outcome: “person fixed”.

In his article on Substack, psychologist Jonathan Shedler explains why applying what I might call non-curious, superficial thinking to a person's mental struggles, such as anxiety, does not work.

Shedler says:

“The problem is not really the individual psychiatrists, who are generally well intentioned. Psychiatry training programs have become overwhelmingly diagnosis- and medication-centered. It is a consequence of multiple forces: a broken healthcare system, the outsized influence of the insurance and pharmaceutical industries, a culture that is psychologically uninformed, and the bizarre disconnect between what patients need and health care incentive structures. These forces push providers and patients toward one-size explanations and treatments.”

I dare say, what Shedler points out, may also happen in Australia.

My experience as someone who has worked for almost a decade in various roles with people who have severe mental health struggles and disabilities, and in a sector where helpers sometimes also have their mental struggles, is that we are all diverse human beings with all sorts of different layers and stories to our histories, inner lives and cultures.

And my opinion is, that therapy that is not coming from a curious stance and that does not look/work beyond diagnosis (which is really just a checklist to allocate insurance or, in Australia, 10 sessions under Medicare) is often not helpful or meaningful in the long term.

If you ask skilled mental health professionals they would say that 10 sessions or monthly therapy is not adequate and especially not if the struggle a person has is something that has persisted for decades.

Why one-size explanations lead to the wrong treatment.

    This is a share for our teachers doing important life changing work in our community who might want to know more abo...
15/03/2026



This is a share for our teachers doing important life changing work in our community who might want to know more about trauma-informed learning - and yes - I know, another one for the plate.

And just whilst on the topic of teaching, who doesn't know a teacher who cared enough to change the direction of a young person 🌿❤️.

Delivered in 2 day blocks this 4-day training course is based on classroom strategies and informed by Berry Street’s approaches to trauma-informed…

How therapy can help with occupational burnout in helping professionals?      If you work in the helping sector, you kno...
14/03/2026

How therapy can help with occupational burnout in helping professionals?



If you work in the helping sector, you know this:

Time and resources are scarce.

You feel it, see it and experience it daily. You might be a helping professional who queries, how can I keep going due to the lack of time to do the work properly. How can I keep going with the impact that work has on my personal life? How can I keep going, seeing how the dignity and well-being of clients or patients I support are violated?

Click through, and read how therapy might help -->

If you are a helping professional, who experience burnout what might it be like to find your agency in a way that address the deeper issues? As a narrative therapist, I don’t do advice-giving in the form of work-life balance hygiene worksheets. Instead, I help you figure out what might be undernea...

This article talks about how failure based language impacts patients negatively. It indicates you must change this to ge...
10/03/2026

This article talks about how failure based language impacts patients negatively. It indicates you must change this to get better outcomes, but how do you do this?

You are working in a system with a scarcity of resources. The system does not leave much to develop something different to the failure based language. You may not have had a felt experience of something different when you trained.

What might be possible if you had an invitation and a space each week to develop a different voice yourself by telling your story in your words? And then letting this reverberate to people around you?


Dr Muiris Houston: The unhelpful language of failure doesn’t make us feel any better

Hello, Frederikke here, I am passionate about providing counselling and psychotherapy to helpers and helping professiona...
06/03/2026

Hello, Frederikke here, I am passionate about providing counselling and psychotherapy to helpers and helping professionals. Maybe you want to know my approach to therapy, what my credentials are and gauge if I am a person you can feel safe with before making contact.

Feel free to ask more questions than what is answered on my website and enquire about therapy.

Hello, I am passionate about offering therapy to helpers. I know the sector and have seen the soul and dedication people bring to the helping profession. I have seen how the personal and professional sometimes create problems in living, in love and work as helpers navigate their own grief, loss and

Roles we may take on early in life as peacekeeper, fixer or the helper, often follow us into our professional life  and ...
05/03/2026

Roles we may take on early in life as peacekeeper, fixer or the helper, often follow us into our professional life and personal life.

Not inherently problematic if we are aware and able to be our authentic selves in our present relationships but it can be problematic as the helping profession may further a fixer mentality helping at a level that does not allow you to rest enough.

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Change takes time—if the origin of mental distress has existed for a while, the therapeutic work and finding resilience ...
28/02/2026

Change takes time—if the origin of mental distress has existed for a while, the therapeutic work and finding resilience and equanimity will likely take time.

Author Oliver Burkeman address the existential angst of trying to always be ready in his latest newsletter:☝️The reason ...
22/02/2026

Author Oliver Burkeman address the existential angst of trying to always be ready in his latest newsletter:

☝️The reason “you’re not ready for what’s coming next”, in other words, is that we’re never ready for what’s coming next.

Nobody's ever ready This edition of The Imperfectionist isn’t mainly about artificial intelligence. I promise! But it does begin with AI, because that’s where we’re currently wi...

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